Elementary school bans dating after 5th graders all date each other

mryounggun said:
And honestly, we should all stop with the 'if it doesn't apply to me or mine, I don't care' mentality. @Kandy if you acknowledge that the school is overstepping, but don't care because it doesn't affect YOUR kid...then what happens the next time they are overstepping and it DOES affect your kid? Overstepping your boundaries as an entity is always problematic and anyone involved in that entity should take notice. Because you're next.
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I don’t think it should’ve been sent out because it leads to outrage like this. On the other hand, I, Kandy, don’t have an issue with it being done. As a parent, I’m all for the notice. As an educator, I could see why people “mad” about it.
When they overstep according to me, is when I will deal with the situation. Until then, if it don’t apply.

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Chicity said:
I don't care what you doing b. Little offended by oatmeal and bacon but whatever. Triggered is an all encompassing word yo. Stop assuming a nigga trying to take shots at you

Ya stance don't make no sense to me tho. Dassit
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I'm saying though. I asked you a question and you didn't answer it. I'll ask again. What makes you think I'm triggered? Can you answer that?

Also, the sweetness of the oatmeal and the savory saltiness of the bacon go hard. Try that shit sometime, fam. Report back.
 
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Kandy said:
I don’t think it should’ve been sent out because it leads to outrage like this. On the other hand, I, Kandy, don’t have an issue with it being done. As a parent, I’m all for the notice. As an educator, I could see why people “mad” about it.
When they overstep according to me, is when I will deal with the situation. Until then, if it don’t apply.

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Gotcha. I don't want to misunderstand your position. I honestly don't. Wanna have a good understanding of where you stand, and right now I don't. Here are two exact quotes from you about the same issue:

1. 'I don’t think the school should tell kids they’re not allowed to date'
2. 'I, Kandy, don’t have an issue with it being done'

So just to clarify...where do you stand?
 
mryounggun said:
I'm saying though. I asked you a question and you didn't answer it. I'll ask again. What makes you think I'm triggered? Can you answer that?

Also, the sweetness of the oatmeal and the savory saltiness of the bacon go had. Try that shit sometime, fam. Report back.
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Running up to the school telling them to suck ya entire dick cause it's a 5th grade dating epidemic that teachers would like to see ended is triggered.
 
Chicity said:
Running up to the school telling them to suck ya entire dick cause it's a 5th grade dating epidemic that teachers would like to see ended is triggered.
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Lol. Ok fam. I'll stop using that figure of speech, lest someone take it seriously. Thanks for enlightening me.
 
VIBE said:
The issue here isn’t preventing kids from liking each other, it’s preventing actual ‘dating’. No elementary kid needs to date, period. This became a legit disruption to the whole 5th grade class, not just a few kids.. all the 5th graders, in multiple classes. Something ain’t right there... this is more than just liking one another.
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Dating is just a word.

Kids will talk to each other and like each other. Cant stop or suppress it.

And im pretty sure they are over stating the hell that all 5th graders are dating.
 
When I was in grade school crushes, "dating" and even fucking was very much on our minds.
The going out was usually hanging out while supervised or some shit.
You got sent notes, girls hung out with you at recess, maybe sneak off and get action somewhere. It happens.
I understand the school doing their part to keep things professional, but the act itself is just a natural part of growing to me.

I'm not a parent in 2019, though.
 
mryounggun said:
Gotcha. I don't want to misunderstand your position. I honestly don't. Wanna have a good understanding of where you stand, and right now I don't. Here are two exact quotes from you about the same issue:

1. 'I don’t think the school should tell kids they’re not allowed to date'
2. 'I, Kandy, don’t have an issue with it being done'

So just to clarify...where do you stand?
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As an educator, because of how things like this turn out, this new story as an example, I wouldn’t have sent it out. Look at all the negative attention it’s getting. I wouldn’t have sent it out due to parents possibly being upset and it becoming a huge negative thing, like it did. Not because I disagree with it. I agree children shouldn’t be dating in elementary.

As a parent, if my sons school did it, I’d be all for it. I’m not an easily outraged parent.

My educator and parent stances tend to conflict. So let’s say I’m on the fence.
 
Hellczar said:
How are they defining dating? Like can the kids hold hands and sit together? But snacks for each other?
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bf/gf drama.....kids worried about who each other's texting

imagine you teaching an elementary class and notice James aint working....you pull him aside and ask him whats up and he says his girlfriend broke up with him for Blaise (w/ the double edge and the eyebrow cuts) and he's depressed


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boy if you dont take your ass in there and turn that fraction into a decimal......
 
Kids at that age don't really 'date' man come on its just some kid crap. This is super hype and creatin' an issue out of nothin'
 
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