Memphis mom accused of murder of 20 year old man in daughter’s bedroom

Should've shot him while in the house, she would have a leg to stand on.

Nope. People gotta stop spreading stuff like that cause it's not true. If you're in TX or FL and you're white, maybe you can bank on that.

For her to have had a shot at beating this, the mom and daughter would have had to basically plant a weapon on dude and concoct a story about him trying to harm the girl, the mom, or both. You can't just kill someone because they're in your house and you don't want them to be.
 
Nope. People gotta stop spreading stuff like that cause it's not true. If you're in TX or FL and you're white, maybe you can bank on that.

For her to have had a shot at beating this, the mom and daughter would have had to basically plant a weapon on dude and concoct a story about him trying to harm the girl, the mom, or both. You can't just kill someone because they're in your house and you don't want them to be.
Better chance of not getting life. The mom didn't let her in he's a intruder,
 
I suppose we are all making a big assumption here. That being that there was something sexual going on between the girl and the dude. Maybe that assumption is wrong, but let's say it's not. The word "fast" in this context just refers to a girl getting sexually involved younger than she should. This chick is 13 y/o. Unless you think 13 y/os should be out here having sexy, I don't see what nuance you're talking about. Yes, she's immature, but that's the whole reason the word exists. She's too immature to be having sex.

There's nothing wrong with calling something what it is. Her being fast doesn't absolve the dude of being a pedophile or the mother of being a murderer. I just acknowledges that the chick was making poor choices.
im not calling no young girl fast

Might just be an AP thing and I'm ok with that
 
im not calling no young girl fast

Might just be an AP thing and I'm ok with that

That's fair.

Then that context for the word just doesn't exist for you because young girls are the only ones it applies to. Grown women can't be fast.

At least not how it's used where I'm from. It might have slightly different meaning where you're at. 🤷‍♂️
 
@Knock_Twice do you have kids?

Ton of them.

And if it was mines and they know after being told the real, gotta go gotta go.

Because they know NOT to engage in that kind of dialogue with no grown man or woman

Gotta go gotta go.

Bet you'll learn when folks tell you to stay in a child's lane.

If I was 13 years old messing with my English teacher, or a 20 year old woman who I saw at the mall, trust me, I knew what I was getting myself involved in.

Gotta Go, Gotta Go.
 
I don't remember the thread but there was a discussion on the term "fast" being used lol

I've learned but also constantly forget that you do have to be careful when it comes to talking to people from other places and using slang. It's pretty common for people from different places to use the same word for basically the same thing but with different connotations or severity attached.
 
i dont like to call lil girls fast as that just takes away any nuance and assigns her to decisions someone with a completely developed brain would make.

Yeah I've seen more people rejecting that term being used towards young girls more and more...especially in instances where people try to put the blame on them for grown men messing with them.
 
I've learned but also constantly forget that you do have to be careful when it comes to talking to people from other places and using slang. It's pretty common for people from different places to use the same word for basically the same thing but with different connotations or severity attached.

We call girls fast, lol, been doing it forever,

Girls = Fast
Boys = Manish.

Everybody, except 4 or 5 people, call girls/women 'fast' and boys/men 'mannish'

It's been used since I was a little boy and beforehand.
 

I'm one of the ones that if you wanna stop shit from happening, you punish both sides, again, the sides being willingly participant. I don't do the whole, "one side should have know tactic"

Cuz I know that's not how it's going to be when all this is over with and judgement day....arrives. Answer for your sins. Especially if you know.


I remember a few folks on here were crying about how Brandy was talking to ole dude from Boyz 2 Men, in that case the parents were ok about it, (these niggas on here was not and act as if this is something that rarely happened)

With this situation, the parent wasn't happy about it and took action. I'm sure she told her daughter not to be dealing with dudes not in her lane. To kill the convo.
She didn't (again this me saying without knowing much) and it led up to the mother taking actions.

Now she's lost her mother, potential to a crime, and the dude is dead, when all that could have been avoided.

It's a sick world, in order to try and clean it up, people gotta go, gotta go.

I aint that parent that comes to the school and say "Why you picking on my children ect" I wanna know what both parties are doing, to know why I'm even up here entertaining this mess. What everybody's involvement is and let's start putting some accountablity on the act or persons.
 
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That's fair.

Then that context for the word just doesn't exist for you because young girls are the only ones it applies to. Grown women can't be fast.

At least not how it's used where I'm from. It might have slightly different meaning where you're at. 🤷‍♂️
How about we start to unlearn some of the things about young girls we grew up on?
 
We call girls fast, lol, been doing it forever,

Girls = Fast
Boys = Manish.

Everybody, except 4 or 5 people, call girls/women 'fast' and boys/men 'mannish'

It's been used since I was a little boy and beforehand.
They used to also call people retarded which they no longer do. You still calling people retarded?

It's ok to let certain shit go for the sake of maturing.
 
They used to also call people retarded which they no longer do. You still calling people retarded?

It's ok to let certain shit go for the sake of maturing.

Brotha,

Let me let the people on this site know something. I feel that it needs to be said.

People still get called retarded, a little slow, dumb, stupid, challenge. Those words are still used.

Faggot was gone for about 3 years and the word is coming back, I still use it.

YOU can stop using those words because YOU deem it as such, but the world don't move how you move. It's people like me that grew up hearing certain things that will still live by that code and those like you who want to change.

It's not a maturity thing, it just you not wanting to use those words because YOU feel a certain way about the word being said.

I DON"T feel the same way as you.

No maturity, it's just you have a different feeling about words than me.
 
How about we start to unlearn some of the things about young girls we grew up on?

I'll be honest. I'm not sure what you're getting at, and you're not really explaining it.

I don't think 13 y/os should be having sex, girls or boys. If we disagree on that point, that's fine, but that's not a matter of needing to unlearn something. There's no new information that has developed over time that makes me believe there is nuance when it comes to sex and kids that are barely teenagers.

I'm really not trying to be argumentative with you. I'm just not getting the point you're trying to make.
 
What would you punish the girl for in this case?

Her mom is about to go to jail. That's punishment enough.

I, myself would give her some time, probation, something, You may disagree with it. Actions shouldn't go without punishment.

If she sold drugs, knowing the end results, she or he would get time or probation etc.

If she or he stole a car, or was told to do it by an adult, who would get the charge? Both or just the adult?

Playing stupid games, you need to be punished. You cut down on shit like this (imo) when you start punishing both parties.

At the end of the day, you will answer to somebody, for your actions, some way and I don't think you can sit up there and be on some "I aint know" knowing that the most high will know if you knew
 
I, myself would give her some time, probation, something, You may disagree with it. Actions shouldn't go without punishment.

If she sold drugs, knowing the end results, she or he would get time or probation etc.

If she or he stole a car, or was told to do it by an adult, who would get the charge? Both or just the adult?

Playing stupid games, you need to be punished. You cut down on shit like this (imo) when you start punishing both parties.

At the end of the day, you will answer to somebody, for your actions, some way and I don't think you can sit up there and be on some "I aint know" knowing that the most high will know if you knew

Nigga, are you smokin?

I'm trying to stop using that word, but WTF? You want to send a 13 y/o to jail because she invited a dude to her house?
 
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