The Lonious Monk
Celestial Souljah
So when people prepare meals to commemorate a day when the pilgrims and the settlers had a feast what would you call that? Isn’t that celebrating the day? The best way to not celebrate the day is by not doing any of that stuff including preparing big dinners.
Again, I don't know any black people doing that. For example, when I'm at my In-laws for example, the whole discussion of the day surrounds around being thankful to God for the blessings throughout the year. I'd wager that for the majority of black households there is no mention of pilgrims, so to say that people are preparing meals to commemorate that day is inaccurate. The holiday has whatever meaning the people worshipping it give it. Same reason Natives can change Columbus Day to Indigenous Peoples Day. That's what they celebrate, so that's what it is.