What is the definition of being single

But at what point do we even have the discussion. I don't like confusion so I have always been upfront about the situation but like I said before it could cost you. But I was always someone that let someone know the situation from jump. Either you willing to deal or not.
 
Judge Dread said:
But at what point do we even have the discussion. I don't like confusion so I have always been upfront about the situation but like I said before it could cost you. But I was always someone that let someone know the situation from jump. Either you willing to deal or not.
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For me, it's when the chick knows she ready to GTD

Sex or the approaching of sex, is where shits gets real for me. If we ain't fucking or been throwing out strong signs that fucking is around the corner, I ain't going thru a list of what I am or am not doing.

She ready to gtd but I gotta seeing other women, at least sexually, I can deal will stop. There's a reason I ain't settled with that other chick by now so cutting her off ain't too much

For a time at least. we ain't on that sponge bob 6 yrs later..... shit either.
 
BNE said:
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all my jokes failin today

I'm crazy. I'd have that discussion as soon as us potentially exploring dating/a relationship becomes a real possibility. if u want it to lead somewhere srs, start it on a clean foundation. its never too soon to know where everyone stands.

it isn't gonna "cost you". if they aint willing to deal with ur situation, n u aint willing to change it, there r plenty more who will. just means they aint right 4 u.
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But when we talking I don't know how long it is going to be before we become physical If I haven't mastered the art of doing without there could be serious problems if we are not physical yet. Isn't it too much to ask a grown person to stop just on a hope that you will?
 
BNE said:
so the man I'm dating is going to be fucking other people right up until the night he fucks me? nah. not I. I'd much rather be on my own.

I like men with self control. that's part of my definition of grown.
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There is set control but you can't expect 90 days either. I mean you can but that is not realistic it leads to lying
 
BNE said:
when did I say 90 days? lol

there is no reason to lie. if sum1 u're seeing doesn't want the same thing, u dip out. there's never a bad reason to. "they won't put out" is fine. "they're fucking other people" is fine.
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I was joking with the 90 days but you could see how there could be a problem with making someone drop everything and having them wait.
 
BNE said:
so the man I'm dating is going to be fucking other people right up until the night he fucks me? nah. not I. I'd much rather be on my own.

I like men with self control. that's part of my definition of grown.
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We bump heads a lot on some stuff but I'm with you on this, if it's someone and not even on some sex shit, If I walk into Burger Champion with my mama/patna/by myself/whoever and I see ole girl who I am telling them about sitting at a table in Burger Champion wit some goofy dude, then I'm tight, after me asking about "who that dude, when I walk up to the table" and she hit me wit the "we aint together" I prolly will get more tight about the situation.

Shit is crazy
 
To me it means not in a relationship. Now dating with intent towards a relationship is still single but a lil murky.
 
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