to the men of A.B.W. who are at least 40y/o

At 42, god forbid something happened to my marriage, I wouldn't even consider dating for at least a year.....I'd forcu more on just making sure I'm mentally and physically on point.

By the time I start dating again, I probably wouldn't take anyone serious that was younger than 35.

Now, the 20 somethings would be for one-nighters, but that's it. Hell, I might just stay away from them jawns altogether.
 
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psychologist say 1/2 your age plus seven.... so she is 6 years too young for this guy, unless shes got daddy issues....
 
39, turn 40 in July 8th...Imma fuck degenerate so 19 the youngest if I see em at events, buy 25 to 36 and 50s to 65ish for older women.

That 19 yr old gotta be in college or a fellow artist
 
if you became single today what age above 18 would you date... the reason i ask this is because this guy within my apt complex is 38 & he running around with a 20y/o.
I'm single and 42. I'm not really pressed about going into the dating scene at all.

If I were to date, the youngest I might be willing to deal with is 35 - 36 with no kids.
 
haha I understand then. I’m a bachelor myself, just made 40 last year and I feel blessed and happy! I’m really liking my prospects at this point and I do not want to mess this up getting involved with the wrong woman… it’s like whatever with me honestly. I’m not really into dating either, but I’ll still play my hand depending on the context. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to or do some activities with. I’m just not going out my way to force anything, and I’m really not interested in entertaining, much less pursuing, anyone unless they wifey material.
 
Had I been asked this a year or two ago, I would have said nothing under 30. Since then I've run into a 28 y/o that I'm 98% sure I could and would get with if I was single. So maybe hard cutoff isn't as strict as I though.

Conversations with her are kinda weird though. I'll mention some shit that's normal to me, and she has no clue what I'm talking about and then I realize she was either not born or too young at the time of what I'm referencing to get it.
 
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True, but there’s more than you think. I have multiple friends around this age with no kids. Idk I guess real life experience is different from internet experience.


You know multiple WOMEN around that age who are single with no kids?

It happens, but it’s not that common nowadays.
 
You know multiple WOMEN around that age who are single with no kids?

It happens, but it’s not that common nowadays.

Lol, it is not that uncommon. I have women friends in their 30's with no kids. For the past couple of years, all the women i dated between ages 32-36 had no kids.

The area you are in plays a part in that. Also, some women today don't want to settle down so quickly. I'm around the dc and Maryland area. I meet a lot of career based women so that is also a factor.
 
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