If you spend the time upfront in choosing someone to have a child with it diminishes your chances of choosing the wrong one. Now you still may choose the wrong one but people take more time researching the clothes on their backs than they do a suitable partner to have a child with.
You were doing good bruh, now you're back on the bullshit lol
In a perfect world it would be like that, but it's not.
I do agree people should take more time courting, but you can court a mf for 10 years, still doesn't mean shit.
There's chicks who be married to undercover pedos for 15 years.