Normally I would call Ohio the arm pit of the country or even the Midwest South Carolina aka sh#t state but not today.

My apologies if my comments were taking wrong about your great state young OG.
There's enough old cain shining through in this post so I won't downvote you in disgust.
 

Sound good though. haha.

Side Bar: It is so common for females AND Males to say that they are down with this type of a relationship and then when the situation presents itself they are not ready and it causes more issues then they had previously.

It's not a cool club to claim. You really have to be mentally prepared for everything.
 
I've mentioned this couple before, but I know a white guy who has an open relationship with this wife. They've even gone on dates together with their other lovers and he says their love for each other had never been stronger than it is now because of the honesty and freedom they have with one another.

Neither one of them aren't trying to replace each other and again, the sex with another person is just icing. They don't have sex with their lovers because they are mad at each other or out of spite because they can. Iirc, they don't go into great detail about the sexual encounters but again, that's not the point.

They both realize that their mate has desires for others outside of them and they don't suppress them. They not going out all willy nilly or anything like that but they are very respectful of each other.


Dunno about going on dates wit each other. But hey, whateva works for them.

The people they went out wit tho, are they a couple too? I wonder how they approached them and told them about their open relationship?
 
The thing is if I was in this type of relationship I wouldn't wanna know what she's doing when she's not with me. In my mind she's going to the store, when she come back in just make sure she bring home some milk to ease my mind.

@Reesey do you and your husband talk about when each other score?
 

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...who's lying?
 
Dunno about going on dates wit each other. But hey, whateva works for them.

The people they went out wit tho, are they a couple too? I wonder how they approached them and told them about their open relationship?

from what i understand, the male and female they go on group dates are a couple as well

they are all apart of the same club
 
The thing is if I was in this type of relationship I wouldn't wanna know what she's doing when she's not with me. In my mind she's going to the store, when she come back in just make sure she bring home some milk to ease my mind.

@Reesey do you and your husband talk about when each other score?


I think every relationship is different. We are a monogamous couple with whomever we choose to involve ourselves with. I am a germophobe so I am not down with us just 'being' with anybody.

If my husband finds someone that he is attracted to enough to potentially bring into the fold he always informs me of it. As I showed you all in the Random thoughts thread, he wanted to bite someone on the butt haha.

We have discussions about "everything" but what we have found in our experiences that not all folks are down for that. Even though I may be down to allow my husband to be pleased by 2 women, the other chick may be insecure or have her own issues with it. So it all depends.

My husband always wants me involved. He has never requested a solo session thus far, even when I suggest it when I am away for long periods of time, especially when I was in the military.

So it truly depends on what king of relationship you have. If you have to trick yourself into believing she just went to the store, than clearly a Free relationship is not the one for you. lol
 
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Oh so you been in those type relationships? Speak on it

As I said for the right situation I am


Simple...I was never a jealous azzz person, just like her. Been told each other if one of us come across someone they wanted to have sex wit, green light given. Just be safe about it.
 
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