Mom of Girl Kidnapped 20 Years Ago Says She Wishes Cops Never Found Her

Black_Samson said:
GEEZUS FUCKING CHRIST PEOPLE, IT'S CALLED STOCKHOLM'S SYNDROME.

how yall gon discuss psychology and omit the fact that there is a label and condition for what the kid is going thru?

That shit aint love.

Love means you yave someones best interest at heart.

This woman knew one day shit was gon come to a head and just like every boil it was eventually gon buss.
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Stockholm Syndrome would only apply if she knew she was kidnapped while she was actually growing up under her care.



Since she didn't find out she was kidnapped until after the fact, her feelings can't be attributed to Stockholm Syndrome.
 
deadeye said:
After seeing that video, can you understand why her daughter wouldn't want to have anything to do with her........and is probably better off without her?
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under any other circumstance i would agree.

this woman has other children and is being taunted and haunted again.
her child came back into her life just enough but not like it should have been.

thats enough to drive someone insane. but she has other children to care about....she must step back. for the sake of herself and the family that does acknowledge her.

i have been reading about this for a couple hours......
whats fucked up about this...is all this lady has went thru.....this is what people are stuck on?

her baby was stolen,
she was considered a suspect,
she gave this girl a birthday party every year even tho she wasnt there,
she was mentally tortured .
only to find her daughter and watch her give her kidnapper the cards she should get,
find out her child knew she was kidnapped but chose to still stay.
watch her build a relationship with her father,
and watch as the kidnapper gets more sympathy than her.

and this statement stands out as pushing her child away?

her child never tried to build a relationship. her child never gave her a chance. her child went thru the motions.

but you still think the child is better off without her bio mom?

nah bruh...you wrong here.
 
deadeye said:
Stockholm Syndrome would only apply if she knew she was kidnapped while she was actually growing up under her care.



Since she didn't find out she was kidnapped until after the fact, her feelings can't be attributed to Stockholm Syndrome.
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a form of it.....yea she can.


its fucked up that lady is still torturing the real mom.
 
DOS_patos said:
under any other circumstance i would agree.

this woman has other children and is being taunted and haunted again.
her child came back into her life just enough but not like it should have been.

thats enough to drive someone insane. but she has other children to care about....she must step back. for the sake of herself and the family that does acknowledge her.

i have been reading about this for a couple hours......
whats fucked up about this...is all this lady has went thru.....this is what people are stuck on?

her baby was stolen,
she was considered a suspect,
she gave this girl a birthday party every year even tho she wasnt there,
she was mentally tortured .
only to find her daughter and watch her give her kidnapper the cards she should get,
find out her child knew she was kidnapped but chose to still stay.
watch her build a relationship with her father,
and watch as the kidnapper gets more sympathy than her.

and this statement stands out as pushing her child away?

her child never tried to build a relationship. her child never gave her a chance. her child went thru the motions.

but you still think the child is better off without her bio mom?

nah bruh...you wrong here.
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Why would any child want a relationship with a mother who says she wishes she had never found her?
 
deadeye said:
Why would any child want a relationship with a mother who says she wishes she had never found her?
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thats after the fact....thats after all the torture the real mother had to endure. this is after all the disrespect.

this is a woman who must cut off her hand to save the body now.

she says this now....but only aftterwards.

how much pain can a person take before they lash out an it be ok?

the daughter doesnt know her and the mother doesnt know the daughter.
the kidnapper is still feeding into the lie, the dad wants his 15 minutes of fame
and no one is helping them bond again because they cant do it themselves.

yes this statement can push the child away.....but after what was done to this woman......
bruh
 
DOS_patos said:
thats after the fact....thats after all the torture the real mother had to endure. this is after all the disrespect.

this is a woman who must cut off her hand to save the body now.

she says this now....but only aftterwards.

how much pain can a person take before they lash out an it be ok?

the daughter doesnt know her and the mother doesnt know the daughter.
the kidnapper is still feeding into the lie, the dad wants his 15 minutes of fame
and no one is helping them bond again because they cant do it themselves.

yes this statement can push the child away.....but after what was done to this woman......
bruh
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Why is it so hard for you to see things from the child's perspective?
 
That 18 year old was raised by a master manipulator and was around an abusive husband of her "mother" growing up.
 
Black_Samson said:
GEEZUS FUCKING CHRIST PEOPLE, IT'S CALLED STOCKHOLM'S SYNDROME.

how yall gon discuss psychology and omit the fact that there is a label and condition for what the kid is going thru?

That shit aint love.

Love means you yave someones best interest at heart.

This woman knew one day shit was gon come to a head and just like every boil it was eventually gon buss.
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It wasn't Stockholm's Syndrome. People with that syndrome know they have been abducted. This girl didn't know that. Her connection to her kidnapper was genuine love as a daughter because that's what she thought she was. None of us know whether or not the kidnapper truly loved the girl like a real mother. However, I'd say it would be hard for her to keep up a complete falsehood of that level for such a long time.
 
deadeye said:
Why is it so hard for you to see things from the child's perspective?
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you know why i cant?
her whole life was a lie.....but a lie she is still ok with because shes scared and confused.

none of yall can place yourself in her place......adding on top of that.....none of this is her fault.
she the rope in this tug of war.
man even at my age i cant wrap my head around this being in her place.....and shes 19 or something like that.

i cant give an honest opinion on that ...so thats why i skip over it.

but she wants to have a normal life....thats all i know. what child wouldnt?

shes maybe lashing out at the bio mom cause she feels its her fault her kidnap mom is locked up.

its clear she doesnt fully understand all this.
so why should her bio mom be held to such a standard when shes the one who has been hurt the most.

yall ask why cant i place myself in the childs position......you niggas got kids.
how can you not understand what this woman is going thru?

and again....what about the dad?
 
Thor said:
That 18 year old was raised by a master manipulator and was around an abusive husband of her "mother" growing up.
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but she was raised up by a good mother in a good household.

i hear what people are saying....but let someone steal they kid and raise them up in a "good household"......they wont be all peachy either.

who gives a shit how she was raised.....she was kidnapped.

kidnapper had to keep her happy. what else you gonna do? cause problems and maybe get the cops involved?
 
The Lonious Monk said:
It wasn't Stockholm's Syndrome. People with that syndrome know they have been abducted. This girl didn't know that. Her connection to her kidnapper was genuine love as a daughter because that's what she thought she was. None of us know whether or not the kidnapper truly loved the girl like a real mother. However, I'd say it would be hard for her to keep up a complete falsehood of that level for such a long time.
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but she did...after a while it became second nature because no one knew enough to question her until the whole job thing.

thats the only reason she came clean.

but when the truth came out.....the girl still stayed. thats screams damaged and scared and confused to me.
 
All you know is a lie but it's still all she knows. The only consistent is the dad and he seem like a fuck nigga.

Smdh.
 
DOS_patos said:
but she did...after a while it became second nature because no one knew enough to question her until the whole job thing.

thats the only reason she came clean.

but when the truth came out.....the girl still stayed. thats screams damaged and scared and confused to me.
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I'm not sure what you're saying. The girl didn't find out that the kidnapper wasn't her mother until she was 17. Even then she didn't know that she had been kidnapped. She didn't know the details at all. She didn't really find that stuff out until the kidnapper was arrested, so she spent a very small percentage of her time with the kidnapper aware that she had been kidnapped.

And yes, the girl is damaged, scared, and confused NOW because everything she's known was uprooted. However, none of that was the case while she was still under the lie. She said herself several times that she had a good life with the kidnapper. That's part of the reason its so hard for her to give up on that woman.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
I'm not sure what you're saying. The girl didn't find out that the kidnapper wasn't her mother until she was 17. Even then she didn't know that she had been kidnapped. She didn't know the details at all. She didn't really find that stuff out until the kidnapper was arrested, so she spent a very small percentage of her time with the kidnapper aware that she had been kidnapped.

And yes, the girl is damaged, scared, and confused NOW because everything she's known was uprooted. However, none of that was the case while she was still under the lie. She said herself several times that she had a good life with the kidnapper. That's part of the reason its so hard for her to give up on that woman.
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a good life compared to what? what we comparing it to? a woman doing everything to keep the child she stole happy? thats the good life?

like i said bruh...i was up last night researching the shit outta this.
what this lady been thru.......its best to just walk away right now.
the child has no idea how hurt she should be...and thats ok. but she will understand.
the bio mom has every right to be selfish....

it crazy that people say she selfish and how she talking to a 19 yr old.
yet...no one is saying shit about how the bio mom was 15 when her child was stolen by a selfish woman.
she was molested by that dmx fuck nigga who aint trynna do shit to fix it..as long as he good fuck everybody else. grown man fucking a child. smdh.
then she blamed and scrutinized for the baby being missing.
how you lose a baby and suspected in the disappearance.

all this at 15 my nigga

1 fucking 5
then add to that 20 years of pain.
still celebrating a missing childs bday because she dont know any better cause shes a child herself.

all while this other bitch changing diapers and celebrating the baby she stole. while not even dealing with the baby she lost which caused her to want to steal a baby.
im not saying the daughter is wrong.....

but this mother is definitely not wrong.

aint but so much pain anyone can take.

and she has other kids she must care for while reliving this whole thing again.

the bio mom and daughter are the only two innocent people here...and they need the most help.
 
DOS_patos said:
a good life compared to what? what we comparing it to? a woman doing everything to keep the child she stole happy? thats the good life?

like i said bruh...i was up last night researching the shit outta this.
what this lady been thru.......its best to just walk away right now.
the child has no idea how hurt she should be...and thats ok. but she will understand.
the bio mom has every right to be selfish....

it crazy that people say she selfish and how she talking to a 19 yr old.
yet...no one is saying shit about how the bio mom was 15 when her child was stolen by a selfish woman.
she was molested by that dmx fuck nigga who aint trynna do shit to fix it..as long as he good fuck everybody else. grown man fucking a child. smdh.
then she blamed and scrutinized for the baby being missing.
how you lose a baby and suspected in the disappearance.

all this at 15 my nigga

1 fucking 5
then add to that 20 years of pain.
still celebrating a missing childs bday because she dont know any better cause shes a child herself.

all while this other bitch changing diapers and celebrating the baby she stole. while not even dealing with the baby she lost which caused her to want to steal a baby.
im not saying the daughter is wrong.....

but this mother is definitely not wrong.

aint but so much pain anyone can take.

and she has other kids she must care for while reliving this whole thing again.

the bio mom and daughter are the only two innocent people here...and they need the most help.
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lol We aren't comparing it to anything. She said she had a good life. Those were the girl's words. Why are you trying to over analyze that?

And I'm not really sure how else to say it. NO IS SAYING THE BIOLOGICAL MOTHER DOESN'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE MAD. All your posts go back that as if anyone has ever said otherwise. Yes, she has the right to be mad. No, that does not make it right to expect the child to just forget her entire life happened. And no, it doesn't give her the right to take her frustrations out on her daughter. The father is frustrated too. His child was taken too. He is at least trying to work with his daughter. The mother is like "Fuck it, she doesn't give me cards on Mother's Day, so I don't want to deal with her anymore."

For the last time, the mother has the right to feel how she feels, but that doesn't change the fact that her actions are selfish. And I guess you're right when you say she has the right to be selfish, but selfishness is almost always a shitty trait to display.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
lol We aren't comparing it to anything. She said she had a good life. Those were the girl's words. Why are you trying to over analyze that?

And I'm not really sure how else to say it. NO IS SAYING THE BIOLOGICAL MOTHER DOESN'T HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE MAD. All your posts go back that as if anyone has ever said otherwise. Yes, she has the right to be mad. No, that does not make it right to expect the child to just forget her entire life happened. And no, it doesn't give her the right to take her frustrations out on her daughter. The father is frustrated too. His child was taken too. He is at least trying to work with his daughter. The mother is like "Fuck it, she doesn't give me cards on Mother's Day, so I don't want to deal with her anymore."

For the last time, the mother has the right to feel how she feels, but that doesn't change the fact that her actions are selfish. And I guess you're right when you say she has the right to be selfish, but selfishness is almost always a shitty trait to display.
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ok.....all agree upon ...

but the mother aint selfish...neither is the daughter but she dont know enough to form a rational thought in this. seems she just wants to be happy.

the father is a fuck nigga...he selfish for not being a intermediary. if he loves his daughter he has to make things right. or fucking attempt. i swear i aint never wanted to punch a nigga in the face when watching tv so bad. then the nigga makes a video about his side of the story? fuck his side of the story...fucking pedophile.
his wife aint shit......as a woman she should understand. she selfish
the bitch who stole the kid ....you already know.


the way i see it...she aint selfish.....
we can agree to disagree,.

but as i do....imma want smoke later.
good day sir.
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Someone mentioned this earlier, but I think a lot of the mother's frustration stems from her being jealous of the relationship her daughter has with her father.


She doesn't seem to realize that the daughter is probably gravitating to him more because she didn't have a father growing up...........and also because the father isn't putting any pressure on her to have a relationship with him.


It's just happening naturally.


@DOS_patos



So, ironically, the "fuck nigga" father.......as you call him.......is actually the one parent providing their daughter with a sense of stability and/or security.
 
The mother is not selfish, she's hurting. Why do you think that mothers day snub cut so deep?

And just where did the kidnapper stash her own dead baby? She must have been pretty far along in her own pregnancy for her boyfriend and family to believe she gave birth. She probably tossed it in the trash with no second thoughts. She seems like that type of person .
 
deadeye said:
Someone mentioned this earlier, but I think a lot of the mother's frustration stems from her being jealous of the relationship her daughter has with her father.


She doesn't seem to realize that the daughter is probably gravitating to him more because she didn't have a father growing up...........and also because the father isn't putting any pressure on her to have a relationship with him.


It's just happening naturally.


@DOS_patos



So, ironically, the "fuck nigga" father.......as you call him.......is actually the one parent providing their daughter with a sense of stability and/or security.
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the father has to be the one that has to be real about what shit is.
hes not...that nigga just chilling after the fact.
we all know them type niggas.....super dad after the growing years.

that nigga couldnt even settle her down. why not? cause he scared to upset her?

foh

that pedophile ass nigga is apart of the problem if he aint apart of the solution.
 
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