Is this rape?

Thotful Insight said:
I'm off the whole rape shit. It's foul and shouldn't happen. So I'm no longer speaking on this.


On another note, Like I told someone yesterday. If it comes to the point where you are making excuses as to why you don't wanna have sex with your partner or the answer is almost no every time. That relationship is dead.

You are supposed to want to fuck your man. Vice versa. Headaches and sicknesses happen. Yea they do. We are human. I'm not about to be fucking when I feel like my stomach is about to fall out of my mouth. How sick can a mf be though. I got a child and at the time I was with his dad it was extremely rare I told him no. Yes, I was tired as shit. I still did it. Hell, I even had sex with him when I wasn't attracted to him as much as I was before.

At my lowest point in my life, I had sex with my man. I didn't want to be touched at all but I still had a man to please and he would've done the same. Shut his needs out for what? I wouldn't expect someone with a low sex drive to understand that though.
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yea...i kinda get your point, but seems like you knew issues were there but for the sake of the relationship, you still chose to have sex with him?

you didnt want to be touched by him at all, but you had sex with him anyway?

i hope you dont take this out of context, but im just trying to understand
 
Simp said:
yea...i kinda get your point, but seems like you knew issues were there but for the sake of the relationship, you still chose to have sex with him?

you didnt want to be touched by him at all, but you had sex with him anyway?

i hope you dont take this out of context, but im just trying to understand
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It was issues there but why deny him sex just to create more issues?

I didn't wanna be touched or talked to period. It wasn't just by him, it was everybody.
 
Thotful Insight said:
It was issues there but why deny him sex just to create more issues?

I didn't wanna be touched or talked to period. It wasn't just by him, it was everybody.
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and he knew this and still wanted to have sex?

maybe i am too passive...i mean, if i get the vibe that my girl is going through something, like i said earlier, i aint trying to slide my dick in her to cure her problems...now if she say something like "AP, know what would make me feel better? some of yo dick"...then yea...but if she doesnt seem like her normal self, i would just give her space until she feels better. I can still beat the brakes off the next day or two
 
Simp said:
and he knew this and still wanted to have sex?

maybe i am too passive...i mean, if i get the vibe that my girl is going through something, like i said earlier, i aint trying to slide my dick in her to cure her problems...now if she say something like "AP, know what would make me feel better? some of yo dick"...then yea...but if she doesnt seem like her normal self, i would just give her space until she feels better. I can still beat the brakes off the next day or two
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He said he had something to make me feel better.
 
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Yes I am upset reading this thread and ummm is Miss K ok?
because you said some pretty foul shit in here.

some of you and by some of you I mean you ---------> @DickHead lack the range to talk over someone's livable experience.

Also you can have a high sex drive and still deny your partner sex. Denying your partner sex has nothing to do with your sex drive.

I know it's hard to take me seriously with this picture lmaooo but I'm deadass serious.

You have a woman in here telling you she was raped by her husband and instead of taking her experience into account you want to continue talking out your ass and debating semantics.

Fuck outta here yo
 
TrannyPacquiao said:
Yes I am upset reading this thread and ummm is Miss K ok?
because you said some pretty foul shit in here.

some of you and by some of you I mean you ---------> @DickHead lack the range to talk over someone's livable experience.

Also you can have a high sex drive and still deny your partner sex. Denying your partner sex has nothing to do with your sex drive.

I know it's hard to take me seriously with this picture lmaooo but I'm deadass serious.

You have a woman in here telling you she was raped by her husband and instead of taking her experience into account you want to continue talking out your ass and debating semantics.

Fuck outta here yo
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Thank you for this
 
@TrannyPacquiao

Thank you very much! This thread was way off topic and as a survivor of marital and violent rape it hurt and yes I got in my feelings about it. I doubt very much this was meant to be a joke thread, not that rape should ever be a joking topic but some of the responses left a lot to be desired. It saddens me honestly to see some of this.

As for having sex when you don't want to, that's up to whoever but really why would you want to have sex knowing your partner isn't in the right space? It's not about denying it all the time, that's a different topic. And so what about your needs when you don't feel like it? I wouldn't want a partner so insensitive to my needs that he's like oh you got a headache oh you low that's cool but let's fuck. This is strictly my own opinion. Sex should be more than a physical need when you are talking about sex between a couple. If someone needs to release that badly then use your hand.

But yes I am okay- you are appreciated
 
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