Is this rape?

[MissK]

If ur husband or wife wants sex, give it to em or get a divorce. Being married to a mf u don't wanna have sex with might be the dumbest shit I ever heard of.

dont ever get married fam

 

[Goldie]

so u have never not been up 4 sex in ur life? ever? ever ever? ever ever?

Nope

c'mon Goldie fam lol

stress is a real thing brah and can take a hit on your libido

im not saying this should be an situation where you use it as an excuse, but sometimes, muhfuggas just not in the mood for sex.

Aight, so you hitting this chick, and she know you like for her to be loud, back scratching, etc...and you trying with all your might, and she just laying there looking at the fan counting down the pumps til you nut...how would that make you feel brah?

please dont say "idgaf, at least i got mine"

Idk, cuz I always end up with nymphos so I never have that problem. I understand once in a while, but if ur continuing to deny sex from ur partner, why df are u with em?

 

[Goldie]

dont ever get married fam

This goes for relationships period, not just when you're married.

 

[MissK]

This goes for relationships period, not just when you're married.

stop trolling, you better than this

 

[Goldie]

I'm serious as a mf, why df would u be with a mf that u continue to deny sex, leave the relationship.

 

[AP4.0]

I'm serious as a mf, why df would u be with a mf that u continue to deny sex, leave the relationship.

there is a difference b/t continuing to deny sex on a regular basis vs a couple of times a month

 

[Goldie]

there is a difference b/t continuing to deny sex on a regular basis vs a couple of times a month

Couple times a month is alot.

 

[MissK]

I'm serious as a mf, why df would u be with a mf that u continue to deny sex, leave the relationship.

lol you know what goldie you got it.

maybe after you have been married for years with kids and all that goes with that lifestyle then we can talk
people don't go into a marriage thinking yep Im not gonna have sex with this nigga today. and sex is not the only reason to leave or stay in a marriage

 

[Goldie]

Sex is very important in a relationship, we're grown and we all know that shit. If I'm not sexually compatible with u, I can't be with u, idgaf how perfect we are outside of that.

I deaded a fineeee ass chick I pursued for a min cuz she didn't wanna have sex as much as I did, it's a big deal to me.

 

[AP4.0]

Sex is very important in a relationship, we're grown and we all know that shit. If I'm not sexually compatible with u, I can't be with u, idgaf how perfect we are outside of that.

I deaded a fineeee ass chick I pursued for a min cuz she didn't wanna have sex as much as I did, it's a big deal to me.

you are getting a chick with a low sex drive confused with a chick who may not want to have sex b/c she just might physically or mentally be worn out

why you being difficult on a monday lol

 

[Goldie]

you are getting a chick with a low sex drive confused with a chick who may not want to have sex b/c she just might physically or mentally be worn out

why you being difficult on a monday lol

Mentally worn out? That cuz she aint havin sex!

 

[AP4.0]

Mentally worn out? That cuz she aint havin sex!

 

[MissK]

lol Dickhead need a blowup doll

 

[Goldie]

@BNE NEVER agrees with me, the fact that she does here is clear that it's YOU who needs a blow up doll when ur pussy finally gets wet that one time a month.

 

[Judge Dread]

Why take what should be given. Rape is rape regardless of marriage.

 

[Joshie Kahn]

Damn goldie trolling got this thread to 4 pages!?

 

[Goldie]

How am I trollin? lol Even trini agrees with me, so it aint me.


The conclusion is , if you have a low sex drive, dont get into a relationship unless the other person also has a low sex drive.

 

[Joshie Kahn]

How am I trollin? lol Even trini agrees with me, so it aint me.


The conclusion is , if you have a low sex drive, dont get into a relationship unless the other person also has a low sex drive.

I disagree, people make compromises in relationships all the time, sex is no exception. Besides if you know you have a high sex drive then why would you knowingly get married to someone who doesn't?

 

[JUDAH]

This seems to be a hot topic. I know after years of marriage the dynamics of a relationship cam change. And it's not always for the better.

But sex is important. And it's one of those things that of something changes and both parties involved aren't on the same page, it can cause real problems.

Im just gonna day every realtionship is different. So know who it is you are dealing with and what they will and won't tolerate before making vows.

 

[Judge Dread]

How am I trollin? lol Even trini agrees with me, so it aint me.


The conclusion is , if you have a low sex drive, dont get into a relationship unless the other person also has a low sex drive.

I think if you took a poll of married or single people with children and busy lives you would find that they don't have sex as much as they want and it has nothing to do with drive. When you don't live together and you don't have kids you probably have sex with the person every time you see them because when you see them that is where your energy is focused. If they don't want to have sex it is easy for them to say I can't hang out with you tonight. When you are married it isn't that easy. But my wife has never told me no. But I know the difference between when she is full of energy and ready to go or when she is just basically in it for me. @Reesey said the same thing earlier. The other thing is if I know she has had a rough day and is tired I just wait until the morning or the middle of the night and wake her up. But after she gets a nap.