Disclaimer: I am not speaking on the emotions or pain of others. Nor does my opinion downplay it in anyway. I do not condone rape from anyone let alone someone you trust and perhaps love.
In my experience there is no such thing as 'no' when it comes to my husband. With my prior husband. There may have been times that I did not feel like having sex, perhaps wasn't feeling him at the time, maybe an argument or whatnot, but to deny him pleasure from that which is his is not something that I did.
So, in my case, no .. even though he was fully aware that I wasn't feeling him (previous marriage only) I would still submit to his request.
NOW... that is for me, not for others and I be d*mned if any one tries to justify the OP by saying just because they are married this is ok.
It is not. That is considered rape and husbands who rape should be held responsible and serve time just like a stranger would.
