FEATURED Is There A Such Thing As "Out Of Your League" In Dating?

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Al G. Rhythm said:
Oh yeah because that’s what is making her out of your league…

Dulusional
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She's not out my league. We're both married. That's a completely different scenario. If we were both single and available, it would just be a matter of favorable circumstances and if the attraction was mutual.

If we were both single, and I came across Beyonce in a setting where we both could speak openly and comfortably, I would absolutely do me best to spark a conversation and see how well we mesh.

If she swerved me. It wouldn't be because she was out my league. She just wasn't feeling me.. Rejection happens. But if for any reason she thought I was cool enough to speak again at a later date, that whole limited mindset is flushed down the toilet.

Ultimately y'all niggas just don't have any confidence or belief in yourselves. And y'all place celebs on a pedestal like they not real people
 
I can't make y'all niggaz believe in me or y'all selves... That much is clear... Y'all too stuck in your self pity. I just hope one day you snap out that shit and realize you're only limited by your efforts. Them chicks is normal people.
 
Duwop said:
She's not out my league.
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And of course you read it. Cuz you want it to be true, you just doubt yourself.
 
I think the overall issue is your social circle.

If you are the most interesting person in your circle.... You're in the wrong circles.

Strive to surround yourself with people more successful than yourself, and they'll natural influence you to step up to the level that chicks you feel are out your league really aren't.

Cuz like who is in her league? When you start to not see much difference between yourself and those people.... You start to see thru the smoke and mirrors.

Maybe get into sales.....sales is a huge confidence booster.. Most self help or personality books are based in sales.
 
Duwop said:
She's not out my league. We're both married. That's a completely different scenario. If we were both single and available, it would just be a matter of favorable circumstances and if the attraction was mutual.

If we were both single, and I came across Beyonce in a setting where we both could speak openly and comfortably, I would absolutely do me best to spark a conversation and see how well we mesh.

If she swerved me. It wouldn't be because she was out my league. She just wasn't feeling me.. Rejection happens. But if for any reason she thought I was cool enough to speak again at a later date, that whole limited mindset is flushed down the toilet.

Ultimately y'all niggas just don't have any confidence or belief in yourselves. And y'all place celebs on a pedestal like they not real people
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yet ya'll niggaz was clowning me in that one thread about celebrities

when I said that if I had a few hrs alone with Beyonce.......I would just chill in a hotel room and eat a Popeye's chicken box with her 😂

COMMUNITY - Who Are You Spending Time With??

Tried to tell niggaz, if you gotta idea ready for investors.... why pass up the opportunity to present it for many investors at a banquet or something vs telling one nigga about it at dinner? You could use that 500k to have a nicer dinner WTF a stage, projector, sound system.... and put...
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niggaz laughed at me and I figured mofos really thought I was saying I just wanted to act like her gay bestie



but in reality dudes just don't believe another man has enough confidence to just treat a celeb like a regular chick SMH

I promise Beyonce would give me another run later after she remember wiping them crumbs off her mouth 🙁
 
Duwop said:
She's not out my league. We're both married. That's a completely different scenario. If we were both single and available, it would just be a matter of favorable circumstances and if the attraction was mutual.

If we were both single, and I came across Beyonce in a setting where we both could speak openly and comfortably, I would absolutely do me best to spark a conversation and see how well we mesh.

If she swerved me. It wouldn't be because she was out my league. She just wasn't feeling me.. Rejection happens. But if for any reason she thought I was cool enough to speak again at a later date, that whole limited mindset is flushed down the toilet.

Ultimately y'all niggas just don't have any confidence or belief in yourselves. And y'all place celebs on a pedestal like they not real people
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I get everything you're saying and I agree to some extent, but you're delusional.

There absolutely are women out there that will swerve you not because they don't feel you but because they look at you and believe that you're not on their level. The problem with your arguments is that they are all built around anecdotes and isolated examples of attractive women who do give regular dudes a chance. Those women absolutely exist, but just because they exist doesn't mean that women with the opposite mindset don't exist.

Remember that Eboni Williams chick and her bus driver comment. She stood on that and didn't waiver. Part of her requirements is that if she gets invited to a wedding in Paris and wants to go for a weekend trip, her man has to be able fund the trip for himself to accompany her. If you are a dude and ain't in the position where you can do that, then a chick like that is out of your league. It's just that simple. Some chicks actually do have standards that they stand on, and no amount of game you got is toing to move them.
 
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The Lonious Monk said:
I get everything you're saying and I agree to some extent, but you're delusional.

There absolutely are women out there that will swerve you not because they don't feel you but because they look at you and believe that you're not on their level. The problem with your arguments is that they are all built around anecdotes and isolated examples of attractive women who do give regular dudes a chance. Those women absolutely exists, but just because they exist doesn't mean that women with the opposite mindset don't exist.

Remember that Eboni Williams chick and her bus driver comment. She stood on that and didn't waiver. Part of her requirements is that if she gets invited to a wedding in Paris and wasn't to go for a weekend trip, her man has to be able fund the trip for himself to accompany her. If you are a dude and ain't in the position where you can do that, then a chick like that is out of your league. It's just that simple. Some chicks actually do have standards that they stand on, and no amount of game you got is toing to move them.
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Blah blah blah…. Just put @Duwop in a room with this Eboni Williams lady and it’s over….
 
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