Fellas, how would you handle this...

Loquacious said:
You’re in a relationship with a lady for quite some time now. You know about her relationship last year, where she was proposed to but she declined and the guy broke it off. The ex and her never communicate until one day, he texts her and says, “I bought some shoes for your son since it’s his first day of school.” She agrees to meet him to get the shoes and even lets you know she’s going to pick up the shoes.

Now, here’s the thing. The ex has been in her sons life for years and the kid and the ex had built a relationship while mom and the ex were together.

how are you handling this?
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Alright, so they broke up last year and he never asked about the child or anything until now when he purchased the sneakers.

I mean that’s nice and all, children go through shoes like nobody’s business so all help is appreciated but where did he come from? Lmao.

I’m looking at it like, a dude that cares about my child will check on my child whether we are together or not just off the bond they have.

I gotta read other perspectives and I’m sick right now so I’m not sure how I even gathered the strength to think and respond now lol.
 
In the end, it’s about the child and not us. My child will never lack and she damn sure won’t lack because a nigga in his feelings.

I’d be more afraid that the dude randomly purchased sneakers after not communicating with us and then he tryna be off with my head.

Issa set up!
 
My thing is this....is not even a trust issue w me. If she was w dude that long n the kid n the guy had a relationship. I have to respect that. You cant just walk into a kids life n expect all relationships to be cut off cause you there now. I got no problem w it at all. If u scared of your lady meeting up w an ex n hooking up in this scenario. You shouldn't be with her.
 
Natural Born Sinners said:
My thing is this....is not even a trust issue w me. If she was w dude that long n the kid n the guy had a relationship. I have to respect that. You cant just walk into a kids life n expect all relationships to be cut off cause you there now. I got no problem w it at all. If u scared of your lady meeting up w an ex n hooking up in this scenario. You shouldn't be with her.
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What if this is her ex

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Natural Born Sinners said:
My thing is this....is not even a trust issue w me. If she was w dude that long n the kid n the guy had a relationship. I have to respect that. You cant just walk into a kids life n expect all relationships to be cut off cause you there now. I got no problem w it at all. If u scared of your lady meeting up w an ex n hooking up in this scenario. You shouldn't be with her.
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Okay. So where do you draw the line? You cool with an ex dude calling your girl at 9 pm just to chat about some homework with her child that he has a bond with?

Again, ya'll dudes gon' be on Red Table Talk crying about ' entanglements'.
 
Taxstone said:
Guys don’t take advice from a nigga with a thanos Avi I implore you lol
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I'm not giving advice. I'm sharing my opinion, just as you are.

Regardless, you have stated you will let your girl run over you and you will justify it.

You would be cool with your girl's ex paying your light bill while he tap your girl for old times sake.

Exhibit A:. John Legend
 
Fightbackmode2005 said:
Why don't you admit your girl run you?

It's comical ya'll dudes don't see this as a sign of disrespect.

Then ya'll want to hide behind the cloak of being macho and uncaring.

Ya'll the type to wear some red-bottom Jordans and think you fly.
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Lol stop generalizing B

Stop trying to control women also over a kid that’s not even yours because you have a fragile ego that’s not wavy
 
Natural Born Sinners said:
My thing is this....is not even a trust issue w me. If she was w dude that long n the kid n the guy had a relationship. I have to respect that. You cant just walk into a kids life n expect all relationships to be cut off cause you there now. I got no problem w it at all. If u scared of your lady meeting up w an ex n hooking up in this scenario. You shouldn't be with her.
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This is not about being insecure, this is downright stupid.

Reverse the roles, no woman would be cool with you meeting up regularly with your ex and you don't even have a child with her.

Y'all deserve what yall get
 
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