@Freeman ngl now that I've been thinking about this issue. The thought of accidentally dating a reformed divestor genuinely bothers.
A black single mother with a mixed child seems like a potential red flag.
I never considered it simply behavior.
From what I've seen irl. The main type of niggas that date single mothers are:
1. Dudes that plan on starting their own family. A decent amount of these dudes might like how some single mothers raise their kids. Her being a good mother makes her a solid...
White folks be dissing us everytime they see this happen.
Little Susan had a *lil phase when she was young and is now considered undesirable by most white men. A lot of white dudes wouldn't even want to date a white chick that's been with other POC men. Having a mixed child is pretty much...
So over the past few months I've noticed a lot of dudes online hate single moms with mixed kids. I was honestly caught off guard by this since I know guys irl that are married and have mixed step kids.
I know single mothers get dunked on all the time. I just didn't know single mothers with...
I was a truck driver for a year. That shit gets lonely. While I was in training both of my trainers passed time by constantly talking to their partners throughout the day.
I'd feel bad for any single trucker. That shit ain't a life worth living long term. Id rather be a merchant marine. Like...
"Doesn't have a family he cares for but he gets some ass every now and then and he got kids he don't really have to take care of."
Not of fan of raising kids in broken homes. Id rather just be childfree instead of creating households like this
"Find a wife. Find a community of families to mesh with and build a real life. Fucking on OF girls and funding college degrees with your IT money is lame. Hanging out with a bunch of middle aged single men is lame."
That's my goal currently. Trying to settle down with a fine ass childfree...
Been thinking about this for awhile now.
I'm currently doing whatever it takes to become financially stable within the next few years. I've recently noticed that most of the college educated and financially stable black men around me currently are either married or in long term relationships...
"I would think normal people save for retirement with a 401k or IRA"
I've only seen folks in white collar professions talk about this. Hence why I got curious.
Makes me wonder if most working class individuals are even thinking about retirement.
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