I feel her, saying that she is only relevant to other black women by what she is not doing,based on stereotypes created for black women. Minimizes everything she does and is apart of. Shes in the rooms and cultures where she sees the lack of color. Shes in those areas creating a standard by which those arenas can expect to get from a woman of color. Not the stereotype that is created for black women.
BET is not owned by black people, but the people that create what BET puts out. May in fact be black people, that are helping a non black owner entity, set a standard and demoralize black women.
Some of the people that disrespect her from this post, are the same people that talk down about women on Instagram, ethnic female artists like Cardi and Nicki..about their obsession with how they look.
About the make up, weave, butt shots, and such. When they are just fitting into the role that entities like BET set, that you expect them to live up to. And if they dont, they take everything you are..and simplify it to a bad pony tail.
We hate when sports media takes everything a guy like cam newton is, and simplify it to just being a show boat "running QB"..Gotta peep the play when it happens, not just when it connect to you.
