OPINION Fair or Foul: Boyfriend gets honest about his s/o weight...

[Lea]

So, I saw this on IG.

I feel like the guy was trying his best to be honest and upfront with her w/o hurting her feelings.

People are always begging for their s/o's to be told the truth no matter what, but in this case, it seems like he was punished for being honest.

What are ya'lls thoughts?

 

[AP4.0]

I think it doesnt get any nicer than this

this goes to show you that people be full of shit

so, you want a nigga to tell you he thinking about fucking other people, but you lose your shit over him telling you you've gained a few pounds?

 

[Duwop]

my answer would have been
"you ain't skinny"

 

[1/2]

he still could have said it differently and been honest, but the whole reaction is lame regardless

 

[Shotta]

The bubbles are different colors.

 

[Duwop]

what's te point of asking that question if you don't want the truth....

and what's the point of responding like that if you don't want to get lied to?


that's the type of chick a nigga gotta lie to to kick it with her....

and if you're encouraging lying....then your relationship is essentially fucked

 

[Lea]

The bubbles are different colors.

 

[Lea]

what's te point of asking that question if you don't want the truth....

and what's the point of responding like that if you don't want to get lied to?


that's the type of chick a nigga gotta lie to to kick it with her....

and if you're encouraging lying....then your relationship is essentially fucked

How would have responded to her responses?

 

[Playmaker88]

Why put it on social media.. but he said what it is.. how it is.. fair.

cut off her nose to spite her face i dont wanna work out with you anymore..

 

[Lea]

he still could have said it differently and been honest, but the whole reaction is lame regardless

I guess there's always a better way to say things but I'm drawing a blank at what he could've said differently to make her ok with his response. Any suggestions?

 

[Shotta]

He should have just said no babe, but I know you not where you want to be so we gotta continue hitting that gym

 

[OhMars]

This is why I couldnt be with a overly sensitive person

 

[AP4.0]

He should have just said no babe, but I know you not where you want to be so we gotta continue hitting that gym

this is lipstick on a pig

 

[Lea]

He should have just said no babe, but I know you not where you want to be so we gotta continue hitting that gym

Ok...I'll take that. Great suggestion!

 

[Shotta]

this is lipstick on a pig

He said she's not fat, but all the chubby talk is low-key saying that she's fat. Dude had to get it off his chest tho

 

[AP4.0]

He said she's not fat, so all the chubby talk is low-key saying that she's fat

chubby not fat tho

there was no answer other than no that she would've been satisfied with

her jeans told her she was gaining weight, he didnt need to

 

[Duwop]

How would have responded to her responses?

if we dating, we not dating no moe....


my wife tho....smh....i don't think yall built for my answer, lol she know better than to say some silly shit like that to me

 

[Duwop]

He should have just said no babe

lol......this why chicks be having trust issues.....

 

[Shotta]

chubby not fat tho

there was no answer other than no that she would've been satisfied with

her jeans told her she was gaining weight, he didnt need to

Chubby and fat is the same thing to some women. She probably was feeling down and needed him to say something positive.

 

[AP4.0]

Chubby and fat is the same thing to some women. She probably was feeling down and needed him to say something positive.

she better read one of those Mahogany cards at Walmart