Voice Memo Guy

mryounggun said:
Nobody is policing you for threads. I'm not a mod, how can I police anything? Feel free to make threads any whatever you want, my nigga. I got no issues with your threads. If I did, I'd just add you to the blocked list and shit. You contribute interesting prospectives to ABW.

Sorry if I hurt your feelings
*whispers softly as I walk away* Bitch ass nigga
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Nah no hurt feelings, just commenting on something you stated.

We good.

Don't whisper, matter of fact, don't whisper softly, you 45 and pay car insurance monthly, niggas under 25 whispers softly
 
Duwop said:
Soooooooooo du story time, my new account, a chick from 2007 works here, literally the year before me and my wife hooked up. And that's exactly how I carried it with her. We chilled for a while..I told her my intentions. Told her I wasn't tryns be nobody man, I just like having a good time. She was like that's cool .. She's going for her master's and wasn't tryna catch feelings either.


Well she caught feelings, and I respectfully peaced out. Fast forward 19 years.... We working together, and she was joking with her girls on how I ghosted her... And I'm like be for real.... You were on career mode, I respected it.. You told me you didn't want distractions... And after we had the mutual conversation of me being a possible distraction, I made an executive decision on both of our best interests. Nobody time was ever wasted cuz we had fun while it lasted.

Her girls all looked at her like..... Well


I was like, did we have fun? She said yes.
Was I disrespectful, dishonest, or completely up front? She admitted I was up front.

I just laughed and said, alright... As long as you know. I never tried to ghost you, you were cool peoples then, and we still cool now, right?

You just gotta keep chicks honest... And you gotta keep it the same way
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Man, you could have given that girl more lol.

She wanted more when she caught feelings, you aint had nothing else going on, meaning you aint have your wife at the time, why not just jump into that relationship bowl and try it out
 
Knock_Twice said:
Man, you could have given that girl more lol.

She wanted more when she caught feelings, you aint had nothing else going on, meaning you aint have your wife at the time, why not just jump into that relationship bowl and try it out
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I was good on that. Shorty was too indecisive. Good chick. But would've been a headache. Which is why I was cool with casual hook ups.... But I knew off the jump it wouldn't have been an exclusive thing. And considering she was the one to initially propose the just chilling situation....I thought it was crazy to change up....

Seemed like a precursor to too many feelings and arguments, and we were having fun just chilling
 
Duwop said:
I was good on that. Shorty was too indecisive. Good chick. But would've been a headache. Which is why I was cool with casual hook ups.... But I knew off the jump it wouldn't have been an exclusive thing. And considering she was the one to initially propose the just chilling situation....I thought it was crazy to change up....

Seemed like a precursor to too many feelings and arguments, and we were having fun just chilling
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Brotha, you don't think that you were adding on to her already indecisive mentality? making scars, showing her good times, only for not to want it to be official.

Guys like you are the cause or reason chicks like her go through their 30s and 40s with relationship issues lol

That young woman wanted more, you don't start the race and not finish it brotha.

She was good for fucking on, the fussing then, but wasn't good for you to change the title from fuck buddy/situationship to girlfriend/relationship.

Dayum Du man

Cold Blooded
 
The Lonious Monk said:
I think there is two part to it.

1) The dude is a lame/creep. Not because he was honest about what he's was looking for, but because of the way he put it.

2) The women claiming this is coercion are out of line. Women give ultimatums all the time been then turn around and try to criminalize it when men do it. Crazy.
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How would have you stated it?

Very true, the women have added legs to this situation lol. That's also wild,

I wonder what the girl who he was sending to repsonse was
 
Knock_Twice said:
Brotha, you don't think that you were adding on to her already indecisive mentality? making scars, showing her good times, only for not to want it to be official.

Guys like you are the cause or reason chicks like her go through their 30s and 40s with relationship issues lol

That young woman wanted more, you don't start the race and not finish it brotha.

She was good for fucking on, the fussing then, but wasn't good for you to change the title from fuck buddy/situationship to girlfriend/relationship.

Dayum Du man

Cold Blooded
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Naw, that was all on her

We met online.... I asked her if she wanted to chill, she was like yeah, and asked if I played spades... Her and her two girls need a 4th, I was like bet.

So I meet these chicks, they were all cool, funny... And we had fun. Afterwards I peaced out. She called me later and was like she had fun, and wants to chill again, but she wanted to have a talk. And went into this whole thing about not wanting a relationship, not wanting anything serious, she just wanted someone to have fun with who won't be a distraction to her studies... And I was like that's cool with me.... I'm big on no attachments, no feelings, just fun.... I'm definitely down.

I wasn't even tryna smash. Shorty was just cool, and it was fun. Then after hanging for a while, one thing led to another, we ended up smashing and shit immediately switched up. And I was like, this is exactly what you were trying to avoid, and I rather not push it forward if it's going to be complicated.

You told me you wanted it to be just a chill situation, I agreed, and now it's feelings involved, and that shit just ain't fun no more. So let's just go ahead and respectfully keep it moving in different directions.

Now if I pulled a Ro and kept it going for months and months knowing damn well I didn't want a relationship..... THAT imo would have been cold blooded. I think what I did was the respectable and decent option
 
Knock_Twice said:
How would have you stated it?

Very true, the women have added legs to this situation lol. That's also wild,

I wonder what the girl who he was sending to repsonse was
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I can't see my being in that exact position. There have been situations where I sat down and talked with a chick, asked her what she wanted from the relationship, and let her know what I wanted. If we weren't aligned we went our separate ways.

Dude was like "Hey, you want me to come over, but if we're going to hang out I need to know if we're sexually compatible. So, if we're not doing that, I'm not coming over."
 
Knock_Twice said:
No what ifs, it's real life for me either happening now, or has happened in the past.

I come to terms that some cats on this board wanna keep things in a certain box because that's all they know, safe play, which is cool, no harm, but you have other cats like myself that may try and create threads based off shit that's reality or come across in life on a normal basis.

Leaving a bitch chick in rain because she didn't put out or kicking her out the hotel because she not trying to fuck.....some on here may think this is bad, fucked up or whatever the case may be, but around my way, that was the norm, bitch you not fucking, get cha shit and get out, or call you a ride home, get out, and life went on the next day

But cats on here, growing up, may have never did any of that, or been around folks that have done it or been in places that have dudes AND CHICKS that be on that time.

Some dudes may not have had chicks be on some, let me see how your fuck game is, cuz I done heard about you from my homegirl type shit. This may be eww to them and very unholy, I get it.

But, don't come down on me because I've done live and seen some things that one may not have seen or done. No shots at you either du,
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Folks see and and heard the shit you’re talking about but we grown now don’t gotta kick somebody out

And by now should know if she wants to fuck or not
 
Duwop said:
Naw, that was all on her

We met online.... I asked her if she wanted to chill, she was like yeah, and asked if I played spades... Her and her two girls need a 4th, I was like bet.

So I meet these chicks, they were all cool, funny... And we had fun. Afterwards I peaced out. She called me later and was like she had fun, and wants to chill again, but she wanted to have a talk. And went into this whole thing about not wanting a relationship, not wanting anything serious, she just wanted someone to have fun with who won't be a distraction to her studies... And I was like that's cool with me.... I'm big on no attachments, no feelings, just fun.... I'm definitely down.

I wasn't even tryna smash. Shorty was just cool, and it was fun. Then after hanging for a while, one thing led to another, we ended up smashing and shit immediately switched up. And I was like, this is exactly what you were trying to avoid, and I rather not push it forward if it's going to be complicated.

You told me you wanted it to be just a chill situation, I agreed, and now it's feelings involved, and that shit just ain't fun no more. So let's just go ahead and respectfully keep it moving in different directions.

Now if I pulled a Ro and kept it going for months and months knowing damn well I didn't want a relationship..... THAT imo would have been cold blooded. I think what I did was the respectable and decent option
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Dayum Ro.

Ro did do some sleeze ball shit from what yall have said.
 
SeaSnake said:
Folks see and and heard the shit you’re talking about but we grown now don’t gotta kick somebody out

And by now should know if she wants to fuck or not
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Stop it brotha. Just say you don't gotta kick somebody out. Don't speak for other people and what they should or shouldn't be doing.

By now, you don't know what a person wants, you can assume of knowing, it's not a 100% thing. She can wanna fuck at 1pm and then don't at 1:01pm
 
Whatever happen to being sexy and “cool”

Nothing like getting a woman in the mood. Makes the sex so much better for both people.


I dislike people are defending him say he did the right thing by making his intentions known because that’s not what I got from that.
 
Dwayne said:
Whatever happen to being sexy and “cool”

Nothing like getting a woman in the mood. Makes the sex so much better for both people.


I dislike people are defending him say he did the right thing by making his intentions known because that’s not what I got from that.
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Because too many people don't actually know how to interact in real life with each other.
 
Dwayne said:
Whatever happen to being sexy and “cool”

Nothing like getting a woman in the mood. Makes the sex so much better for both people.


I dislike people are defending him say he did the right thing by making his intentions known because that’s not what I got from that.
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Not defending him, but who are the players on the scene that are sexy and cool?

Where are the sexy and cool songs and sexy and cool music

I was listening to a rap song today, and the 2nd verse was talking about bending over a chick or laying down pipe etc.

I'm like dayum, we have went way left with this here.

No balance in the sense.

But yeah, not completely gone but pushed back are the whole making a woman feel sexy and cool. Folks will look at you as a goofball or something.

Niggas gotta be savages is the memo
 
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