Too harsh or good father and son moment?

GOAT said:
The world might not care... but hopefully your dad would.

His dad told him 2x in that video that he didnt care about his feelings and told him he shouldn't care about his own feelings.

🤔 too harsh... or a good father/son moment?
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Just curious, would you allow a "coach" to talk to your son in a game like this or at practice ?

If he tells your kid, boy or girl that they are playing like shit, or a pussy or cusses them out. What would you do as a parent? Because parents usually allow coaches to shit on their kids while sitting in the bleachers saying nothing to the abuse

By the way, I don't have any issue with the message to the kid
 
I'd rather do it than to let someone else do it. Good motivation to me. I love it myself. It'll stick, nigga, I wouldn't have used it, like someone mentioned, and maybe would have said forget your feelings instead of fuck...or I may have would have said fuck...idk...but that's how he parent his child.

I don't see anything wrong with it. Fathers are needed. I'm sure Joe Jackson words were much worse.
 
Knock_Twice said:
I'd rather do it than to let someone else do it. Good motivation to me. I love it myself. It'll stick, nigga, I wouldn't have used it, like someone mentioned, and maybe would have said forget your feelings instead of fuck...or I may have would have said fuck...idk...but that's how he parent his child.

I don't see anything wrong with it. Fathers are needed. I'm sure Joe Jackson words were much worse.
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Knock_Twice said:
Just curious, would you allow a "coach" to talk to your son in a game like this or at practice ?

If he tells your kid, boy or girl that they are playing like shit, or a pussy or cusses them out. What would you do as a parent? Because parents usually allow coaches to shit on their kids while sitting in the bleachers saying nothing to the abuse

By the way, I don't have any issue with the message to the kid
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That kid is like 7 or 8 yrs old tops

Looks like he weighs 50lbs

If i caught a grown man talkin to my lil child like that hes catchin a chairshot

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Yeah main reason I waited so long to get my son into wrestling was to avoid that whole stage...

Kids are going to suck at sports their first couple of years....and I'm not crashing out on a 8 year old over that shit....and I ain't having no coach crash out on my son for that shit either.

He's 14 now and been wrestling 3 years...and he's just starting to get good... But even then it's not a crash out situation. I do talk to him firm if he's overly emotional after a loss.... But It's within reason
 
GOAT said:
That kid is like 7 or 8 yrs old tops

Looks like he weighs 50lbs

If i caught a grown man talkin to my lil child like that hes catchin a chairshot

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I'm not mad at it.

I just see it all that time that kids are talked to in that manner on these youth football, basketball teams around this country by coaches and their parents.

If by the coach, the parent does nothing. If by them during or after the game, the parent usually is upset and mad and now the girl or boy is on the field in tears..
 
AP4.0 said:
I have and thought that was wrong
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Why you didn't say anything about it if you thought it was wrong. Hey coach, you don't gotta talk to that kid like that...lay off him or her. he's only 6 or she's only 7, you see them crying. Chill out

Why you aint say that?
 
Saw a coach choke a middle school kid on the bus once.

It's never that serious. These coaches sometimes insert their role way too deep in these kids lives. I don't need some dude thinking he gotta be a father figure to my son and I'm right the fuck here
 
AP4.0 said:
Man some of y'all are awful lol

It's a child

There is plenty of time to teach them the ways of the world

This Dad is awful too

There is nothing positive about this
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Bruh, you just coming in here thinking the worst of us. lol I think most people agreed the father was wrong. At most expressed understanding of what he was trying to do but said he did it wrong.
 
Duwop said:
Saw a coach choke a middle school kid on the bus once.

It's never that serious. These coaches sometimes insert their role way too deep in these kids lives. I don't need some dude thinking he gotta be a father figure to my son and I'm right the fuck here
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That's what I'm saying, folks call out each other on the internet, right or wrong, good or bad, but in real time, when these kids are being belittled by coaches who wear booksacks, or the coach who thinks he's a coach cause he has a clip board and some the number 4 J's that match the team's uniform, no parent says anything. They sit there and watch lil man man or lil keke keke get abuse.

We all should have an outcry for that abuse like we have with this man in the OP imo.

It's getting out of hand with these coaches. It's never that serious on how these coaches be talking to their kids. Parents, that aint my job to say or insert what they do with their kid...I'ma mind my own business on that....but others...nah...they need to be called out if that's not your steelo
 
Knock_Twice said:
That's what I'm saying, folks call out each other on the internet, right or wrong, good or bad, but in real time, when these kids are being belittled by coaches who wear booksacks, or the coach who thinks he's a coach cause he has a clip board and some the number 4 J's that match the team's uniform, no parent says anything. They sit there and watch lil man man or lil keke keke get abuse.

We all should have an outcry for that abuse like we have with this man in the OP imo.

It's getting out of hand with these coaches.
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Again, that's why I waited till my son was in middle school to start wrestling, and I'm at every match.

I don't think I would be able to handle watching parents or coaches yell at elementary school kids like they grown ass men.

It's borderline a sickness the way some adults feel like they have to berate and belittle children. And I'm very firm with my kids... But it's never that
 
Duwop said:
Saw a coach choke a middle school kid on the bus once.

It's never that serious. These coaches sometimes insert their role way too deep in these kids lives. I don't need some dude thinking he gotta be a father figure to my son and I'm right the fuck here
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Choke a kid???

Surely you called the cops, right?
 
The Lonious Monk said:
Bruh, you just coming in here thinking the worst of us. lol I think most people agreed the father was wrong. At most expressed understanding of what he was trying to do but said he did it wrong.
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Nah, that's not what most of people in here are doing
 
Knock_Twice said:
Why you didn't say anything about it if you thought it was wrong. Hey coach, you don't gotta talk to that kid like that...lay off him or her. he's only 6 or she's only 7, you see them crying. Chill out

Why you aint say that?
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If the parent not gonna say anything, what makes you think Imma stick my neck out for them
 
Knock_Twice said:
I'd rather do it than to let someone else do it. Good motivation to me. I love it myself. It'll stick, nigga, I wouldn't have used it, like someone mentioned, and maybe would have said forget your feelings instead of fuck...or I may have would have said fuck...idk...but that's how he parent his child.

I don't see anything wrong with it. Fathers are needed. I'm sure Joe Jackson words were much worse.
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@The Lonious Monk

You co-sign this?
 
AP4.0 said:
@The Lonious Monk

You co-sign this?
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I'm not truly following you on this. I truly dont see any issue.

If he doesnt that Monk, Monk raise hie kids how he raise his kids.

If Monk has a rule that he punish his kids by making them do 100 push ups.

Who am I to be on some man thats out of line...lol

Phyiscal Abuse is different...but Monk or whoever, those are they kids man..
 
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