FEATURED Is There A Such Thing As "Out Of Your League" In Dating?

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Duwop said:
Because it comes down to priorities and what she's willing to and not sacrifice based on the person talking to her.

The reality of that statement is that she hasn't met a guy that has interested her enough to shift her priorities and and make accomodations for..

She hasn't had an experience that has made her reevaluate if those things she wants truly bring her happiness.

At this moment she feels she is convinced that she knows what she wants, I'm just saying she could meet someone who's impact on her makes her reconsider.

Just because it hasn't happened, doesn't mean it CAN'T happen. And I'm not saying I'm the one guy in the world that can change that for her... I'm saying that you never know who could make that kinda impression on her. It could literally be anybody.... If he has the balls to shoot his shot.
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Well, I get what you're saying. I disagree. Some people plant their flag leave it. But we can agree to disagree. Good talk.
 
Duwop said:
Cuz that shit don't exist. You just don't find her attractive. Not being attracted to someone doesn't determine leagues. She might pull a dude who makes more than you, looks better than you, has more followers than you, pretty much an upgrade over you in every way..... And how is that guy in her league, and you not. That's what makes the whole thing foolish.

You just don't find her attractive.

There's plenty of women I don't like who have men who are doing much better in life than me..I sound real dumb saying they not in my league just cuz I don't think they look good.
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You’re assuming I don’t find her attractive

Nasty trap I set for myself I know
 
I'm not doing this into the weekend. Thanks for entertaining me guys.
 
AP3.0 said:
I wish beta would've made a joke in the chat now
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The funny thing is we were all laughing in there lol

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plus there is no such thing as a "league"

it's just about proximity and willingness to hear what somebody else has to offer



always remember: "u don't get what u deserve, u get what u accept"




just cuz some chick states publicly that u gotta meet a certain standard to get at her

doesn't mean it really applies to a guy that she really likes



plus it's ironic that niggaz accept these "standards" from women that can't even provide it for themselves

broke chicks talmbout u got to buy them a bag that they can't even afford on their own 😏
 
It's 1994 and you're outside with the fellas Saturday afternoon, had to wait until Soul Train went off to go outside, (those who played outside) there are some on this board who couldn't play outside with the other kids nor know anything about watching Soul Train on Saturday mornings (you know who you are) but usually when you played outside, whether you lived in the projects/apartments or in an all black neighborhood, because back in the 60s, 70s, 80s and 90s, most if not all black folks lived around each other, the girls who would be outside, did you not tell your homeboy while sitting on your schwinn red bike, man ima make Kisha or Latoya (who is the prettiest chick in that neighborhood or project/apartment) she would be your gf.?

Those who think women are out of their league as an adult, usually thought chicks when they were in elementary school, middle school and high school were outta their league


Those who have this mindset gfs were below a 6 or they usually struggled with talking to pretty popular chicks when they were younger.
No shade it's just a confidence thing that either you had as a young one or you got it as you got older when you dealt with chicks.


Most pretty chicks (back in the day) liked ugly dudes with a personality, outgoing dudes who was pop, athletes, or troubled niggas, yo thugs...if you wasn't either one of these dudes coming up, I can see you saying that chicks are out of your league.

If you kept to yourself as a child, teen, I can see one saying chicks are out of their league.

But if you was a nigga who was that nigga in school, on a job, had a rep on the yard (college campus) this whole out of your league motion is laughable to you
 
Yall are mental.

Everybody can’t have everybody.

And that’s okay
 
Tayboo said:
I don't think that's what anyone is saying the bolded. Most people are not compatible for one reason or another, but concept of there being "leagues" in the dating world is a myth.
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It’s not a myth.

It’s plenty women who could never get with me. One could say because they are not in my league

Another saying for that is not my type or not what I’m looking for or not attractive enough etc…

It’s all the same
 
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