FEATURED Is There A Such Thing As "Out Of Your League" In Dating?

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Iceberg_Taylor said:
aight yall
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Naw fuck that....

it's threads that go for 100's of pages.... It's still shit to be said.

Cuz there's plenty of women who have come to terms with these superficial standards. Ain't shit wrong with being single, but many a rich and successful woman has considered dating down because of lack of options when they set the bar too high.

Some stubbornly won't budge, while many do. It's not a matter of leagues, it's a matter of mindset and a man presenting themselves as someone they would consider sacrificing that financial standard for.

I don't follow celebrities intensely enough to know who everybody is married too... But I'm quite sure there are some women out there on their 4th or 5th marriage who finally saw how foolish that mindset was and found happiness with a relatively unknown person.

A genuine human connection can shatter the illusion of leagues that people place on themselves.

Again, the number is never 0
 
Al G. Rhythm said:
Yo saying the same shit for like 5 pages straight with paragraphs is a talent
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At this point, I'm not even sure who Du is arguing with anymore. The main idea of all his posts are that there are some high level women that will give regular dudes a chance and that dudes should have the confidence to shoot their shot at whoever they desire. I haven't seen anyone disagree with that, so he'd be fine if he wasn't in here trying to act like he's the only one with the courage to aim high. lol
 
Iceberg_Taylor said:
LOL Du for the record I agree with you
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Honestly, I'm just an idealist. I'm very aware that I could be completely wrong, and most of my opinions are based on hypotheticals.

It's the philosophy and psychology of it just doesn't agree with me
Most people in general have no idea what they want in life, and can be completely turned on their ass when presented with something that contradicts everything they thought they they knew about themselves.

Like if your grand dad was a doctor, your dad was a doctor, and you're like fuck it, I guess Imma be a doctor..... Then one day you have some life altering event and suddenly it's fuck bring a doctor. The shit happens.... It may not be common... But the shit happens.

A chick could be al about status and believe niggaz not in her league, and dudes can see her and believe that shit too.... Then something might happen, she may feel empty in her social circle and end try something different. Or she may be at a hotel bar, and the bartender makes her laugh harder than she's laughed in a long time.

My whole point is people perspective can change in an instant ..and that instant could be the same second a dude trying his luck shoots his shot.

I just don't buy into that league crap, and I never will.. People change their minds about shit way too often. And a lotta these dudes are too afraid and hesitant to see the shit for what it is
 
The Lonious Monk said:
At this point, I'm not even sure who Du is arguing with anymore. The main idea of all his posts are that there are some high level women that will give regular dudes a chance and that dudes should have the confidence to shoot their shot at whoever they desire. I haven't seen anyone disagree with that, so he'd be fine if he wasn't in here trying to act like he's the only one with the courage to aim high. lol
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lol I been trying to tell him that’s not what the thread is about but I just get “I hate myself” lol
 
The Lonious Monk said:
At this point, I'm not even sure who Du is arguing with anymore. The main idea of all his posts are that there are some high level women that will give regular dudes a chance and that dudes should have the confidence to shoot their shot at whoever they desire. I haven't seen anyone disagree with that, so he'd be fine if he wasn't in here trying to act like he's the only one with the courage to aim high. lol
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i don't like seeing people set limitations on themselves
. It ain't about me.. I'm good..I just don't want people thinking they shouldn't shoot their shot at who they want cuz they never know how it might go. And I also wanted to say that most these chicks don't know what they talking about when they make these demands on who they will and won't date.

It was an interesting topic to me. My bad
 
Duwop said:
i don't like seeing people set limitations on themselves
. It ain't about me.. I'm good..I just don't want people thinking they shouldn't shoot their shot at who they want cuz they never know how it might go. And I also wanted to say that most these chicks don't know what they talking about when they make these demands on who they will and won't date.

It was an interesting topic to me. My bad
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What I'm saying is, I don't think anyone disagrees with any of that. My only disagreement is that you believe that there is no such thing a chick being out of someone's league. I think there are. Some chicks just feel they deserve a certain level of man and they won't budge. You called them stubborn. At the end of the day, not every dude can pull chicks like that.
 
The Lonious Monk said:
What I'm saying is, I don't think anyone disagrees with any of that. My only disagreement is that you believe that there is no such thing a chick being out of someone's league. I think there are. Some chicks just feel they deserve a certain level of man and they won't budge. You called them stubborn. At the end of the day, not every dude can pull chicks like that.
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Which is why I think it's an interesting topic to discuss.

1. You're right, I don't believe it.
2. Those chicks often are wrong.
3. They absolutely can if they abandon the fear of rejection.

I like conversations that lean to the psychology and philosophy of it all.. Perspective and perception can often make us believe things that simply aren't true. And I feel this topic falls in that category. It comes down to how you think.
 
Duwop said:
Who is meatball?
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For some reason, I figured it was a streamer...
Al G. Rhythm said:
I’m out of meatball’s league

That doesn’t mean if she has confidence that she could ever talk to me
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And yeah, you're full of yourself.... You're not out of her league, you just don't find her attractive.. if you would date a more attractive streamer, then it's the same thing... You just chose a cuter one....
 
Duwop said:
Which is why I think it's an interesting topic to discuss.

1. You're right, I don't believe it.
2. Those chicks often are wrong.
3. They absolutely can if they abandon the fear of rejection.

I like conversations that lean to the psychology and philosophy of it all.. Perspective and perception can often make us believe things that simply aren't true. And I feel this topic falls in that category. It comes down to how you think.
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lol How does number 2 work? If a chick doesn't give dudes below a certain level a chance and she stands on that. How is she wrong?
 
Duwop said:
For some reason, I figured it was a streamer...

And yeah, you're full of yourself.... You're not out of her league, you just don't find her attractive.. if you would date a more attractive streamer, then it's the same thing... You just chose a cuter one....
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How you gonna determine for me whos not in my league?
 
The Lonious Monk said:
lol How does number 2 work? If a chick doesn't give dudes below a certain level a chance and she stands on that. How is she wrong?
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Because it comes down to priorities and what she's willing to and not sacrifice based on the person talking to her.

The reality of that statement is that she hasn't met a guy that has interested her enough to shift her priorities and and make accomodations for..

She hasn't had an experience that has made her reevaluate if those things she wants truly bring her happiness.

At this moment she feels she is convinced that she knows what she wants, I'm just saying she could meet someone who's impact on her makes her reconsider.

Just because it hasn't happened, doesn't mean it CAN'T happen. And I'm not saying I'm the one guy in the world that can change that for her... I'm saying that you never know who could make that kinda impression on her. It could literally be anybody.... If he has the balls to shoot his shot.
 
Al G. Rhythm said:
How you gonna determine for me whos not in my league?
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Cuz that shit don't exist. You just don't find her attractive. Not being attracted to someone doesn't determine leagues. She might pull a dude who makes more than you, looks better than you, has more followers than you, pretty much an upgrade over you in every way..... And how is that guy in her league, and you not. That's what makes the whole thing foolish.

You just don't find her attractive.

There's plenty of women I don't like who have men who are doing much better in life than me..I sound real dumb saying they not in my league just cuz I don't think they look good.
 
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