I think your take is missing the point of Giovanni's quote and the premise of this situation. You're right... no one knows what's going on behind the scenes. The issue isn't whether Pap was genuinely a great man/husband or if Remy had incentive to cheat. It was the public disrespect that discredits the work Pap put in as a man to hold "it" down. Being in a committed relationship with a woman/man doing a 8 year bid warrants way more than a participation trophy. We live in a world where our current president elect was humping on porn stars while his wife was sitting home with their newborn son... men that hold on to sacred principles are so rare it's mythical, as much as we stray from them.
Privacy and dignity are sacred in a relationship, and we seen Pap honor those things when Remy did her dirt. In fact, it was only when the battle rap world leaked that Pap knocked out Eazy and both Eazy and Rem spun it for publicity that we figured out they had issues. The most Pap said in the last 18 months about it was in a HipHopIsReal interview snippet that ended up never getting released. That Christmas picture wasn't leaked btw, it was covered in battle rap news the day Remy posted it herself. Fast forward to now, Remy is crashing out at 3am and leaking details about their sex life. Whatever either of them did in private is their business... I don't care either way, I'm just here for the Eazy jokes. But what we're witnessing is two ppl handling a fallout publicly in two different ways. Most of us that have dealt with this before would've handled it like Pap did, and that has very little to do with a Black Love fitted.
Yalls proof of him being a good man is what ??? That no cheating stories came out till now, that he stuck around until she got out of jail. Do you know how many woman do this and it's sneezed at lol.the the double standards are wild.
to me if he truly loved her, what he did was in line with just that. What you u do when u love someone, great job black man you demonstrate your love by staying during her incarceration. But if they or her no longer want that shit thats ok. She dont have to stay married if she not feeling it.
Yeah your seeing one side, you pointed out that Remy obviously wasn't hiding her relationship with Eazy,
But nobody knows if Pap cheated and she didn't say shit
It's like the kid in school who is the one that gets caught talking when the teacher turnaround but he or she is not talking to themselves.
And yes Saying you want to Marry someone and showing up Should be baseline and comparing marriage morals to Trump is wild. So to say because some people have no marriage standards means we should big up men who are physically there or there on paper.
And men miss what Nikki is saying. You want women to put up with bullshit when the black men puts on a face for everyone else. So to the world Pap is one thing, to Remy he completely didn't man.
Remy wrong for cheating and coming on ig to expose whatever she think she exposing. But Remy ain't crashing out cus this man is so good to her. And he is America's answer to good black men in this time/era, give me a break
Yall tripping. Just because his public image is one thing doesn't make him innocent in his marriage.
Wana talk about her looks is crazy
