Breastfeeding In Public

I asked because when you have children you will realize that when they’re hungry you don’t have time to worry about where you feed your baby, train included. I found it to be stupid that of all places, you felt she shouldn’t nurse on a train just because someone will sit next to her. We sit next to people and eat all the time right? A baby should be able to do the same. To also think that saying a baby should wait to eat is the dumbest shit I ever heard. Breastfeeding is much different than formula feeding. No real logical person would have a hard time understanding that.

like I said earlier, Mexican chicks have pulled titties out sitting right next to me on the freight. The first few times it seemed crazy as fuck, I even told my wife about it when I got home the first few times. After a while shit don't even register anymore and you feel weird even raising an eyebrow over it.
 
It's unseemly, like belching or having bad breath. Victorian era rules of conduct still linger. It does not need to be treated as a crime but there are a lot of people posturing as though something being natural means the public needs to put up with it. That's a naturalist fallacy. It's also a slippery slope because a lot of natural things are unpleasant. I don't want to smell your farts, I don't want to see your exposed body, I don't want to hear your baby crying. Just because it doesn't bother you does not mean you can say "fuck everyone else" and do what you want. That's how you get people pissing in public.
 
I asked because when you have children you will realize that when they’re hungry you don’t have time to worry about where you feed your baby, train included. I found it to be stupid that of all places, you felt she shouldn’t nurse on a train just because someone will sit next to her. We sit next to people and eat all the time right? A baby should be able to do the same. To also think that saying a baby should wait to eat is the dumbest shit I ever heard. Breastfeeding is much different than formula feeding. No real logical person would have a hard time understanding that.

Right let's go through this point by point.

"When you have children you will realize that when they’re hungry you don’t have time to worry about where you feed your baby, train included"

OK

"I found it to be stupid that of all places, you felt she shouldn’t nurse on a train just because someone will sit next to her."

Its just an example. Public transport is usually where this is an issue so I thought it apt. And when you say 'just because someone will sit next to her' you're diminishin' my entire argument, which is, there are other people on the train.

"We sit next to people and eat all the time right?"

Yes. Someone eatin' "loud" stinky food is worse than someone nibblin' at a cookie.

"A baby should be able to do the same."

No one is sayin' otherwise; this is about breastfeedin', not babies feedin'.

"To also think that saying a baby should wait to eat is the dumbest shit I ever heard. "

Why is it the dumb? Mothers can feed baby before they get on the train or after they get off, what's the issue? I'm not frontin' like breastfeedin' is like physically hurtful but you're implyin' that not breastfeedin' on the train will harm the kid when it won't.

"Breastfeeding is much different than formula feeding. No real logical person would have a hard time understanding that."

OK


This is a difficult topic to debate because when the response is "the baby is more important than a strangers' discomfort" you can't really argue. The ting is tho' that's not the debate, I already said sometimes its cool to breastfeed in public. Then I said that maybe sometimes it's a little inappropriate. A train would be a good example of such a time. If the train broke down or was delayed or empty or sutten then yeah by all means whip out the tit.

For me, its a little tasteless to breastfeed in enclosed/crowded public areas.
 
I posted before I read through the thread. Seems the main issue is that women want to have a special status where they are free from criticism from private citizens. I think Kandy summed it up perfectly: "Don't whip it out if you don't want to be stared at [or criticized]".

The mother's right to comfort does not magically negate everyone else's right to comfort.

What is weird though is that the people who seem to be against breastfeeding the most are often those pro-life, we-love-babies Christians. That's puzzling and hypocritical.
 
Right let's go through this point by point.

"When you have children you will realize that when they’re hungry you don’t have time to worry about where you feed your baby, train included"

OK

"I found it to be stupid that of all places, you felt she shouldn’t nurse on a train just because someone will sit next to her."

Its just an example. Public transport is usually where this is an issue so I thought it apt. And when you say 'just because someone will sit next to her' you're diminishin' my entire argument, which is, there are other people on the train.

"We sit next to people and eat all the time right?"

Yes. Someone eatin' "loud" stinky food is worse than someone nibblin' at a cookie.

"A baby should be able to do the same."

No one is sayin' otherwise; this is about breastfeedin', not babies feedin'.

"To also think that saying a baby should wait to eat is the dumbest shit I ever heard. "

Why is it the dumb? Mothers can feed baby before they get on the train or after they get off, what's the issue? I'm not frontin' like breastfeedin' is like physically hurtful but you're implyin' that not breastfeedin' on the train will harm the kid when it won't.

"Breastfeeding is much different than formula feeding. No real logical person would have a hard time understanding that."

OK


This is a difficult topic to debate because when the response is "the baby is more important than a strangers' discomfort" you can't really argue. The ting is tho' that's not the debate, I already said sometimes its cool to breastfeed in public. Then I said that maybe sometimes it's a little inappropriate. A train would be a good example of such a time. If the train broke down or was delayed or empty or sutten then yeah by all means whip out the tit.

For me, its a little tasteless to breastfeed in enclosed/crowded public areas.

Breastfeeding IS babies feeding...like hello? It is called breastFEEDING, like wow. “This is about breastfeeding not babies feeding” lmaooooo. Did you wake up on the slow side of the bed?

You said all of that and still make no sense. If it’s tasteless to feed a child, something is wrong with you. It’s tasteless for grown ass men and women to give a fuck about their own personal feelings than a baby being fed. Mfs will rant and rave, praise a broad butt ass naked for complete attention but a mother feeds her baby at the breasts and it’s considered tasteless?

Lmaoooo, bye!
 
Breastfeeding IS babies feeding...like hello? It is called breastFEEDING, like wow. “This is about breastfeeding not babies feeding” lmaooooo. Did you wake up on the slow side of the bed?

You said all of that and still make no sense. If it’s tasteless to feed a child, something is wrong with you. It’s tasteless for grown ass men and women to give a fuck about their own person feelings than a baby being fed. Mfs will rant and rave, praise a broad butt ass naked for complete attention but a mother feeds her baby at the breasts and it’s considered tasteless?

Lmaoooo, bye!

You insult yourself, Empress.
 
“This is about breastfeeding not babies feeding”

You just can’t get no more remedial than that right there.
 
We EAT in public, are we not going to eat in public because people feel it should be done in their homes? Be fucking real. The time people spend looking at a mother feed her child from the breasts, you could go on minding your business and THEN you got ignorant ass folk comparing burping to eating. Nah compare EATING to EATING, that’s wtf breastfeeding is..feeding a child.

I’m done because I’m not going back and forth with Mfs that will never breastFEED in life. Worthless ass nipples.
 
I actually got pissed at my wife for even trying to suggest that she should go to a public bathroom to feed my daughter. My daughter will NEVER eat in a fucking bathroom. I've had no problems when my wife breastfed in public.
 
Any muthafucka that's cool with their lady going to a dirty ass bathroom to feed their flesh and blood is pussy imo and is way too worried about the opinions or feelings of others over the well being of their own child.
 
its funny because that quote makes perfect sense but, as you can't see that, I think we should leave it there

Dude breastfeeding is baby feeding, the baby is eating at the breasts so it is most definitely about babies feeding. The fact that you are too slow enough to understand what I’m saying is concerning. I wonder how many other idiots are thinking that same way. Babies nurse for numerous reasons at the breasts so whenever they want to nurse is when they should be nursing.


You are too slow, I just can’t continue this with you.
 
Mfs DONT want a mother to breastfeed in public but also don’t wanna hear a baby crying. That makes ZERO fucking sense. The most logical thing would be to just nurse the baby. What real grown ass person would be ok with a mother letting her baby be hungry or thirsty because people are ignorant? Think on that. So what if she pulled her breast out to feed her baby, she is providing her baby with the milk made just for him/her.
 
Mfs DONT want a mother to breastfeed in public but also don’t wanna hear a baby crying. That makes ZERO fucking sense. The most logical thing would be to just nurse the baby. What real grown ass person would be ok with a mother letting her baby be hungry or thirsty because people are ignorant? Think on that. So what if she pulled her breast out to feed her baby, she is providing her baby with the milk made just for him/her.

Yeah as long as the visual is kept at a PG level (titty mostly covered in case there are kids around) I don’t see why it would be an issue.
 
You are a REAL man, that’s why.

The well being of your child should be every man's top priority. Niggas are always wishing a muthafucka would on shit relating to their own respect and pride but when it comes to their kid getting fed they "hope" no one notices and are very non confrontational with strangers concerning breastfeeding.

I can't wait for the glorious day someone says some slick shit to my wife while she's breastfeeding my daughter.
 
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