Ladies, Just Ask the Fellas

[Royal]

I'm hoping that he has had that talk and she's on birth control. If not he rolling the dice.

If he had said this why would you keep letting him bust off in you?

We not talking about the females actions right now....I am curious as to the dudes actions lol.

but yeah this female should probably not fuck with dude at all( for other reasons lol)

S/N: the female may have had a ain't shit moment . As this particular dude is an ex-boyfriend


Like have you ever been in the coochi and just lost your discipline. Or you never go raw unless she on birth control?

 

[Banginscrew901]

We not talking about the females actions right now....I am curious as to the dudes actions lol.

but yeah this female should probably not fuck with dude at all( for other reasons lol)

S/N: the female may have had a ain't shit moment . As this particular dude is an ex-boyfriend


Like have you ever been in the coochi and just lost your discipline. Or you never go raw unless she on birth control?

Oh naw I went yogi bear before and bussed I only be nervous about the one's I don't see any type of future with. That post nut clarity is a bitch though. But I usually will have that convo of do I need to pull out or not.

 

[ZMaKEa]

So I have a question

If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.

What does that mean?

Is the just that damn good and they just lose all sense of control?

It means he on that spectrum where his words don't match his actions. Also he might be on that weird rapey type of time, where just like busting inside of women when they least expect it.

Every man be there, where once or twice or five times a year, you stick it in and you go for about 5 minutes and then you wake the fuck up and realize you fucking some chick raw and you panic.

Women be thinking they pussy good, that's why the man roll over and go right to sleep. Nah, that motherfucker is having a panic attack and he praying it's just a wet dream. He thinking he just fucked up his life up over some pussy.

I know the hearts of men. Lol, men like to be yeah I beat the pussy up 3 months later after no baby came. I would say half of all men experience terror after cumming inside pussy.

And when the baby don't come, it emboldens men to keep doing it. It's like why people watch horror movies, they get to experience scary, terrifying shit and they don't die. Being terrified of the worst happening and it doesn't happen is the best high.

A smart man will grow out of this and realize he playing with his life. After about the fourth pregnancy scare or the 1st miscarriage that he quietly celebrated because he didn't want a baby by that woman, he has learned.

His whole life style changes. He starts fucking women he actually like. He don't fuck raw, never ever ever. He don't fuck in the dark. He don't fuck drunk or high. He starts respecting women more, not because he admires them for being strong and nurturing or any of that bullshit, but because he knows pussy can fuck his life up. His respect for women is like organized crime's respect for law enforcement.

Dumb ones keep doing until they get a woman that can't stand pregnant. And they the ones that say I don't want a kid but fuck women raw.

Most men ain't even practice fucking a chick raw and not coming. They don't know the signs of them about to bust. They don't know how to hold the cum in. They just blindly fucking until some shit squirt out they dick.

Shit is an artform and science.

Men that say they don't want kids and fuck chicks raw are crazy. Women that let men fuck them raw and they know that man that don't want kids are crazy.

In fact, if you having sex regularly with someone and you never discussed what's the plan is if an unintended pregnancy was to occur, y'all crazy. If y'all can't get on the same page of keeping it or not keeping it, y'all don't need to fuck.

And that's why I started fucking high end escorts in the 90s. Condoms are always in use. STD checks are regular. They are always on birth control. If an unintended pregnancy occurs, they are aborting that motherfucker because there's an abortion settlement discussed beforehand.

 

[mryounggun]

So I have a question

If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.

What does that mean?

Is the just that damn good and they just lose all sense of control?

Stupidity and lack of self control.

The end.

 

[dodge]

So I have a question

If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.

What does that mean?

Is the just that damn good and they just lose all sense of control?

He’s dumb

 

[Kool from the Gang]

Dear Men... Could you be with a woman who was smarter than you? More successful career wise?

Shit, could I? I WANT to be with a woman who smarter than me. Who tf helping the kids with the advanced algebra?!

As for the whole, ‘more successful career wise’, I wouldn’t be hard up about that either as long as she leave the career at the office, so to speak. All I’m saying by that is, don’t come home with that ‘ordering your subordinates around’ mentality, and even if we don’t start out that way, don’t fall into those mental trappings.
I wouldn’t honestly care if she was the more successful career person, but it seems to me that most women do, and let’s say she’s making $100k+ as a head nurse at a metropolitan hospital while I’m making $87k doing what I’m doing. More often than not, the $87k is what’s gonna be taking care of things around the home or, expected to be.

 

[Kool from the Gang]

Why are some men afraid to admit they've smashed, currently smashing, or would smash a BBW?

Is there some type of shame? Everyone has a preference, but why is there a stigma attached?

My little stab in the dark at it would be that a nigga who isn’t big may not want to readily admit that he deals with big bitches bc it could be perceived as his punching weight, ergo what he can get.

 

[deadeye]

So I have a question

If a guy your intimate with vehemently proclaims to not want children right now, but goes in raw and bust a nut in you.

What does that mean?

Is the just that damn good and they just lose all sense of control?

 

[deadeye]

We not talking about the females actions right now....I am curious as to the dudes actions lol.

but yeah this female should probably not fuck with dude at all( for other reasons lol)

S/N: the female may have had a ain't shit moment . As this particular dude is an ex-boyfriend


Like have you ever been in the coochi and just lost your discipline. Or you never go raw unless she on birth control?

Pullout game's indefeated.


One of my biggest fears has always been having a kid.


At 52 though, I'm starting to consider fatherhood.


Just has to be with the right woman.


Don't want a crazy babymama situation.

 

[Kool from the Gang]

Pullout game's indefeated.


One of my biggest fears has always been having a kid.


At 52 though, I'm starting to consider fatherhood.


Just has to be with the right woman.


Don't want a crazy babymama situation.

I’m not judging by a long shot, it’s just that 52 sounds like a wild age to finally decide you want to be a father. Assuming it takes you another two years to find a woman you want to have a child with and if you’re gonna go about that process with her naturally, you’ll become a father around 55-pushing 56. Your child graduating from high school as you reach 74-75 is crazy.

 

[deadeye]

I’m not judging by a long shot, it’s just that 52 sounds like a wild age to finally decide you want to be a father. Assuming it takes you another two years to find a woman you want to have a child with and if you’re gonna go about that process with her naturally, you’ll become a father around 55-pushing 56. Your child graduating from high school as you reach 74-75 is crazy.

All true.


I think it's more about embracing the idea of being a father than the reality of actually being one.


Realistically, I'm too old to deal with everything that comes with fatherhood.

 

[Kool from the Gang]

All true.


I think it's more about embracing the idea of being a father than the reality of actually being one.


Realistically, I'm too old to deal with everything that comes with fatherhood.

i think it’s the more responsible mindset to have on it. I’ve never known of a man in his 60’s to enjoy running behind little kids. I mean, I’m sure there are some out there and honestly I’m sure there are some grandparents taking care of grandchildren because of the parents’ absence via whatever reason.

Honestly I’m only mid 20s and I feel like if I haven’t gotten started having children by 35, maybe 38 at the latest, that’s a dream I’ll lay down to rest.

 

[ymwito]

Dear Men... Could you be with a woman who was smarter than you? More successful career wise?

Yes and no.
Yes because a woman's career or smarts pretty much come last in the list of things that make her attractive. NOTHING beats beauty.

No because oftentimes women who use their career as a badge of honor (not saying you do) tend to have very masculine traits which are quite unattractive and difficult to deal with as a heterosexual man. It is the same as if a woman was telling me how fast her car was. Ew.

 

[orgen]

Are yall ever whole heartedly satisfied with having just ONE female?
If you could build a woman, what will she consist of? That question could be another thread, but I'm asking bc men my age and younger seem to be more infatuated with these talentless, reconstructed, modified IG "models". Are those the type of women yall really look forward to having longterm relationships or marriage with?

I am , messing with multiple females will only drain your pockets

 

[konceptjones]

I am messing with multiple females will only drain your pockets

Punctuation would make a huge difference here.