Ladies, Just Ask the Fellas

1/2 said:
we all do shit while we work

im typing this and listening to a big krit interview

some trying to break the ice, some literally would like to know what you're doing, some are just trying to be on your radar

most of the time we aint gone break into no unwarranted deep convo shit......just from experience a lot of ya'll dont like that shit and would rather small talk

do you respond and they dont have anything else to say?

do you ever text them first in the morning?
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I love when niggas hit me up with some off the wall text. It’s wayyyyyyy better than those generic text @Tayboo mentioned.

Hit me up like “you know why mashed potatoes are so good?”

And you got a friend in ME!
 
Tayboo said:
Yeah I respond and I've sent messages first, but literally that's all dude has ever text me. At first I thought maybe he just wasn't into texting so I called a couple times and the convo was dry too.
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If the convo is dry, it won’t get any better unless maybe he is more into face to face communication. Dating is garbage these days.
 
Tayboo said:
Yeah I respond and I've sent messages first, but literally that's all dude has ever text me. At first I thought maybe he just wasn't into texting so I called a couple times and the convo was dry too.
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i mean yeah, some people just have no convo...and its worse if you dont have much in common

i feel like I got good conversation but there have been some instances where it just didnt roll

not much you can do about that

Kandy said:
I love when niggas hit me up with some off the wall text. It’s wayyyyyyy better than those generic text @Tayboo mentioned.

Hit me up like “you know why mashed potatoes are so good?”

And you got a friend in ME!
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i believe you lol but this aint most women at all.....that kinda shit is lame and boring

i told ya'll about the POF chick that got mad cuz I was using complete sentences and shit....she wanted that emoji drip language

ChicagoFigure said:
Either hes a square cubed, or hes got a lady and cant hold a convo without being consciously paranoid.

Or he just wants nudes
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this aint far fetched but I try not to bring negatives in lol

we got enough people thinking everybody cheats and its just cool out here
 
Tayboo said:
Yeah I respond and I've sent messages first, but literally that's all dude has ever text me. At first I thought maybe he just wasn't into texting so I called a couple times and the convo was dry too.
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Save yourself the headache and move on. It won't get better. A person who lacks conversational skills is a waste.

That's why I lived by that "5 Words Or Less" rule. If you text or call them, and all they're giving is 5 word or less responses...K.I.M. You shouldn't have to pull teeth to get them engaged in a conversation.
 
1/2 said:
i mean yeah, some people just have no convo...and its worse if you dont have much in common

i feel like I got good conversation but there have been some instances where it just didnt roll

not much you can do about that



i believe you lol but this aint most women at all.....that kinda shit is lame and boring

i told ya'll about the POF chick that got mad cuz I was using complete sentences and shit....she wanted that emoji drip language



this aint far fetched but I try not to bring negatives in lol

we got enough people thinking everybody cheats and its just cool out here
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In my opinion i feel like online dating is tougher than meeting someone irl.

I also believe 90% of men are only looking to fuck and 90% of the women have no intentions of actually meeting.
 
ChicagoFigure said:
In my opinion i feel like online dating is tougher than meeting someone irl.

I also believe 90% of men are only looking to fuck and 90% of the women have no intentions of actually meeting.
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Shiiiiiieeetttt...online dating was convenient af for me. Get to weed out the ones just based off a profile, or a simple back & forth convo in the inbox. That's how I came up wit my rule.

Unfortunately the profiles...made people say some of the dumbest, most illogical shyt I ever read. One profile I read, this chick said "Don't say hi, hello, how are you, how are you doing". So pretty much no respectful greeting. Lol
 
IP360 said:
Shiiiiiieeetttt...online dating was convenient af for me. Get to weed out the ones just based off a profile, or a simple back & forth convo in the inbox. That's how I came up wit my rule.

Unfortunately the profiles...made people say some of the dumbest, most illogical shyt I ever read. One profile I read, this chick said "Don't say hi, hello, how are you, how are you doing". So pretty much no respectful greeting. Lol
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Were u using it for long term dating or just hittin n quittin?
 
AP21 said:
hell nah

nudes are like bread that gets served before the dinner

it's supposed to just hold you over and get you prepared for the real thing
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So if you're not dealing with anymore... would you keep them? and if yes, why? Feel free to chime in @Cain and thank you for answering me.
 
Lea said:
So if you're not dealing with anymore... would you keep them? and if yes, why? Feel free to chime in @Cain and thank you for answering me.
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me personally, I would delete them

they wouldn't serve me any use

but I know some dudes like to keep them in the tuck to remember the times and shit

plus if she was super bad, that would just be torture looking at someone I can't have anymore
 
Lea said:
Generally, do guys jack off to nudes that girls send him?
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Not to completion...but might

Ya know..

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Check the temperature a lil
 
Nah. It's 2019 im not jerking my dick to photos. Maybe a video just to send back to her on some,look how you got me shit.

I delete nudes after viewing, personally
@Lea
 
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