2026: Back to the randomness

SneakDZA said:
You sound like you know you're a moment of weakness away from turning your life into a Tubi movie
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No, I wouldn't say that.. I'm just doing reflection because I recognize the behavior... I'm the new guy in a new environment... When chicks start seeing that I'm a real one... They get friendly. And I'm peeping it... And I'm thinking should I just stop being so nice and speaking and smiling at people.
 
Duwop said:
Ugh, I know y'all not safe... So I can't even vent what I'm feeling....

But

Fuck it....

I low key hate, but also am extremely fascinated and very prideful about my natural charm.

I am not a flirt... I've never been a flirt.... But I'm funny, and I'm interesting, and people in general just like talking to me.

My strongest professional skill is easily customer service. I've literally survived in life because I know how to talk to people, and get them to like me. It's my talent. There's literally no other explanation... You shine a magnifying glass on my entire life, and you will clearly see my ability to get people to like me is the absolute strongest contributing factor to everything I have.

Which is especially beneficial because humans are social beings. But every now n then it kinda catches me off guard response I get when people discover I'm a cool ass person to have a conversation with

My perspective and sense of humor is pretty appealing to most people... And at this big ole age, I'm kinda used to just getting along with people and having fun in life...

But whenever an new female seems to be... attracted to that personality trait... It always catches me off guard.

Like I really just be geeking and having fun with life... Please... Please... Don't like me. Like I do not need admirers... It's always a problem. Which sometimes forces me to not really open up in social environments like work... But I've been on this new job for life 7 months now... And I think i gotta readjust how I interact... Way too many women think we are way cooler than we really are.

I've always heard hospitals are like the worst places to work...got damn I'm seeing it now.
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The self glaze online is crazy. But who else you gonna do it for right?

Happy for you tho, I guess.
 
TheNightKing said:
Man I was anticipating some deep shit lol.
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It’s also on audio

 
Imagine seeing a huge glorious book case filled with numerous novels

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You grab one book and see this

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Then you start looking at all the books, and each one is worse than the other

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But the Reader is like

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Reading Rainbow

Reading is fun, let your imagination run wild
 
Duwop said:
No, I wouldn't say that.. I'm just doing reflection because I recognize the behavior... I'm the new guy in a new environment... When chicks start seeing that I'm a real one... They get friendly. And I'm peeping it... And I'm thinking should I just stop being so nice and speaking and smiling at people.
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Bro I think you're giving yourself too much credit for being a nice guy and getting genuine reactions returned in kind. You don't have a superpower you're just not an asshole. I grew up in the slums and it took me years of being away from that nonsense to realize that smiling at people and people smiling back at me wasn't some illicit exchange.

Respectfully, get your mind out of the gutter. Not everybody came up in the same environment as you.
 
When I first moved to Montreal for work strangers would smile at me and I thought it was about to be a fight. Shit is weird and not ok.
 
SneakDZA said:
Bro I think you're giving yourself too much credit for being a nice guy and getting genuine reactions returned in kind. You don't have a superpower you're just not an asshole. I grew up in the slums and it took me years of being away from that nonsense to realize that smiling at people and people smiling back at me wasn't some illicit exchange.

Respectfully, get your mind out of the gutter. Not everybody came up in the same environment as you.
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Possibly..... But most women consider my martial flaw to be that I'm too friendly.
 
Duwop said:
Possibly..... But most women consider my martial flaw to be that I'm too friendly.
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As a married man what does it mean that you think most women consider you to be too friendly? I'm not trying to be a dick here I just think you have some shit you're trying to work through.

If your intentions are honorable there's no such thing as too nice. You just do what you do and make sure that boundaries are established and respected.
 
SneakDZA said:
As a married man what does it mean that you think most women consider you to be too friendly? I'm not trying to be a dick here I just think you have some shit you're trying to work through.

If your intentions are honorable there's no such thing as too nice. You just do what you do and make sure that boundaries are established and respected.
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It's like...

I make female friends way easier than I make male friends..

Like my entire life.. In highschool, the days I skipped school...I was literally chilling with some of the baddest chicks at our school.... But we were just hanging in the city, getting chicken boxes, playing cards at somebody cousins house...

I've always been dumb cool with chicks in capacity that most dudes would shoot a shot... But I was always just chill.

I dunno, just some reflection shit...I ain't really tryna do a deep dive... But I hear you
 
Same here on all that. That's why I feel like I can speak on it. But as you know as we get older the shit gets more complicated. But also as we get older we develop the tools to deal with those complications.

Sometimes it's just as simple as "do I want to risk blowing my life up over this or should I casually establish boundaries?"
 
There's also the other option of "can I smash and get away with it...?" But that never works with coworkers. Never.
 
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